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Which do you prefer - Marriage without love or love without marriage???  email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 78/100. LotRowena (150)   ranked 1,275 out of 19,259 in questions & answers 2 years ago

hi there!. I would like to share my marriage life a little bit. I was married to to my husband 9 years ago. We had 6 children all in my custody since he left us. During our times (when we're still living together) there was not much good memories to remember, everything seems to be bitter things and all that. But we were married and evaluating our marriage I have concluded that it was Marriage without love. Maybe at first, there was.

Then after ten years I decided to live with someone. For almost one (2) years, I can't help but say that he's too good to be true, we love each other, and respect each other more. And take note, we are not married.

So I feel like I need to ask you guys a simple question, which do you prefer - Marriage without love or love without marriage??? I dreamed to have marriage and love at the same time. For whatever reason and purpose God did not allowed me to, HE alone knows it.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 72/100. varron (372)   ranked 2,589 out of 19,259 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Love is important, same thing with marriage,marriage and love should go together so i prefer the important one as "marriage with love". Marriage is the expression of love, sad to say "some things" are mis-interpreted with the word "love" that's why they go unto marriage.Same thing I cannot consider, "love without marriage",it is because if you love somebody, then you should marry him/her, and if you don't, then maybe it is not really a deep love.


jenny08 (79)   ranked 9,699 out of 19,259 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Marriage without love is useless.,if you marry somebody without love your marriage will become miserable ant it really won,t work out and it end up with failure.,

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2. myLot reputation of 30/100. 347eat (104)   ranked 8,129 out of 19,259 in questions & answers   2 years ago

What is the sense of marriage without love? If I will be married to be someone I want to be sure that we love each other and it will last forever until the end.

Marriage without love can be classify as a house but love without marriage can be classified as a home. Do you get what I mean?

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. saw2207 (616)   ranked 220 out of 19,259 in questions & answers   2 years ago

honestly. . I would rather be alone than in the wrong company!

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4. myLot reputation of 69/100. alexies29 (103)   ranked 12,973 out of 19,259 in questions & answers   2 years ago

I believe in the sanctity of marriage, but I will still prefer "love without marriage". Getting married is useless if the couple does not love each other that much. Love and respect are very important for a relationship to work. If you get married for a wrong reason, the relationship will eventually end. To avoid getting hurt and hurting children, marry the person that you truly love and truly loves you too. Make sure that you've settled all your difference and problems before getting married. And also see to it that you are willing to share your life with this person for the rest of your life. If you're in doubt, don't do it.

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5. myLot reputation of 77/100. kenites (269)   ranked 11,492 out of 19,259 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Marriage without love defeats the meaning of marriage itself. Love is the core in every married couple. I would rather have love without marriage. What is important to me is love, if there is love then what can you ask more. I always believe in love, for me marriage is just a way of legalizing your love.

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6. myLot reputation of 79/100. xtedaxcvg (2431)   ranked 5,354 out of 19,259 in questions & answers   2 years ago

I guess you just got married to the wrong person at first. Our feelings and emotions can be blinded sometimes, and what we feel as love might be just deep infatuation or something. This is the reason why we really need to know the person who we will be with. We also need to work on our relationship, kinda like a give and take situation. We must always know when to keep silent and when to reach out, be sensitive.

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7. myLot reputation of 90/100. strawberrychocodahi (3996)   ranked 975 out of 19,259 in questions & answers   2 years ago

None of the above, I would say that I would not chose any of the two options you have given. But on your case, God only knows what really happened and whatever the reason of the split, it is still the responsibility of both parties. It takes two to tango.

We cannot point a finger of who's to blame and what happened to the relationship, but it is still both of you to consider if the relationship would go on since you made a vow before God.
Everyone dreams to have a relationship that will last for a lifetime. It is only God that will hold you both if both tried to be there for each other no matter the circumstance maybe, through thick or thin, through sickness and in health right? If God is the center of the relationship, and both acknowledges fear and love for God based on the vows you made for each other, i think that it will be a reflection of how God wanted every relationship to work because it is God that you pleased, not men.

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8. myLot reputation of 89/100. evepin (643)   ranked 6,106 out of 19,259 in questions & answers   2 years ago

i think both love and marriage are important, love because of obvious reasons, and marriage because it is a symbol of committing one's self to the other. but definitely though i will not choose marriage without love. both parties and the children will be affected by this. one of the key ingredients of commitment to one another is their greta love, respect and understanding for each other. if there's no love then one will feel trapped in a nightmare. love without marriage is possible though of course it would be nice. some people just say "they don't believe in marriage" but why not, if you see marriage as a lifelong commitment to the one person you choose to love and spend the rest of your life with.

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9. myLot reputation of 69/100. nehmer (383)   ranked 1,094 out of 19,259 in questions & answers   2 years ago

hi rowena im not that good in relationship stuffs because my love life is also a failure..fear but here is my advice.. you should focus on something that makes you happy.. I know it will be hard on your children but this is your happiness they should understand it.. its a matter of choosing the best that suits you.. it really depends on you.. your the only one that can control your life in the end. its your choice.. lol gud luck...

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10. myLot reputation of 38/100. ivansama (273)   ranked 11,638 out of 19,259 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Marriage without love is a complete hell.

l agree with the rest that love is the most important thing.

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