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lover93 (10) 2 years ago

I'm falling love with one guy, we worked in the same company but on the different floors. one day half years ago, he asked someone else for my MSN account and we began to chat on the internet at that time. And then he always asked me out for dinner or movies, and it was really a happy time with him. He's funny and that do attarcts me so much. He always came to my office just see what i am doing. it really moved me. But recently, he almost didnt send me messages even if i chated with him, he always replied me after a long time. what should i do? please give me some constructive advises, thanks!

 

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tags:  advise on a kind of thing, not real relationship
 
1. myLot reputation of 96/100. alexysabelle (435)   2 years ago

it must be a difficult situation you are in, what's worse is you happen to fall in love with a guy without assurance that he'll love you back...

questions: - did he court you?
- had he hinted a feeling of maybe likeness, admiration, or did he show some affection to you?
- or maybe, it is just an infatuation

its best to know and define feelings, so that you'll not be mistaken by the verbal and none verbal languages he showed to you. he might you invited for dinner, for movies for example maybe out of friendship, maybe he just like your company, maybe he does not love you after all, maybe he has another reason for his previous actions. know your feelings, do not expect so much so that you will not be frustrated. and if indeed you are frustrated already, maybe this is not yet the right time for you and maybe he is not yet the right guy for you..

good luck...


lover93 (10)  2 years ago

i definitely agree with what you said. that' very nice of you. i really appreciate your advice.
he not only said to me that he liked me, and also he said to our colleges.
Maybe you are right, it's just an infatuation that did drive my crazy and make me feel frustrated. And maybe he's not the right guy for me.
a guy truly caring about me will never do things like that. I always think.
anyway, thanks your advice.
I'm ready to move on.


myLot reputation of 96/100. alexysabelle (435)  2 years ago

they say "a good guy is worth waiting" be proactively, i know God will send you one and a GOOD one for that - that would exceed your expectations.

someone told me that "when we exert so much effort to find the one we "THINK" is the right person for us, that person can easily be gone. while if we LET God do the searching for us, and wait for the ONE He sends for us, that person will stay with us for the rest of our life and with a bonus.

God Bless...

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2. guidajia (25)   ranked 363 out of 711 in love   2 years ago

tell he some guy is running after you
see what he react


lover93 (10)  2 years ago

maybe you are right, but unfortunately, I'm not a girl of that type.
I'm passive in love.

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