How you will convinience your father and mother?

India
May 20, 2010 9:41am CST
Hi friends, i am loving a girl and want to marry, but still my parents don't know anything about this. Now i want to tell every thing means about my love to my parents, so how can i start and how to conviniance my parents? Please guide me it s the question of my life so..........
4 responses
@babshish (1387)
• India
20 May 10
Hi Sach143_u, You can share with anyone to whom you are more close, and let them know about your relationship. First try to understand what issues they have in accepting your relationship, and try to sort them out with proper justification. Have confidence on your love and also make your parents feel that it is not wrong decision, After all you have to live your whole life with that person and I am sure your parents are also thinking for your good future only. So try to make them understand that you will be surely happy with the person you love. But also try to understand your parent's feelings as well and their concerns as well. It will help you to take the decision .
@babshish (1387)
• India
20 May 10
My heartiest wishes to you for this. I hope you get what you are looking for and the best for your life.
• India
20 May 10
HMMM yup friend i am also thinking about that one. In this situation i should take care of all the things and i should be very patience. I will do it step by step so that i can achieve my goal or i can handle the situations easily without any problem.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
20 May 10
Ok.. sach, you sure abt this? What about her parents? First of all,Do you have a job to take care that girl?then you can whisk out easily.. If NO it's hard.. Try telling them that you wish to begin a new life..ask them about how successful they were in their life..ask them about how they feel of each other.. there is always a chance that he/she will tell.."your father/mother is cause my success"I think this as the right moment..to trigger abt your love.. tell them that one's life will be a success if one has a supporting partner.. wish you all success.. Happy myLotting...
• India
20 May 10
Oh my god!!!! i have forgotten their parents!!!!!!!!!!! sagar i am really thankful to you yar..... I never think about them, you opened my eyes man. I have to talk with their parents and make them closer then i can share my feelings so that i can convinience them easily. Thank you very very much for your valuable response.....
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
20 May 10
You better tell your parents about your girl. And,it is also the girl's right to know your parents. The better and early time to do is the best coz you want to marry her. You can convince your parents if you really love her. Your parents will give you the blessings if they will feel that you really loved her. I wish you all the luck and all the best. Have a good day always
• China
20 May 10
At first you concentrate on your career. If you do a good job then it's more easy to convince your parents. At first you start to talk your close member of your family. when your close will be agree with you then you tell them because on that time your close one will help you too to convince your parents. All the best for your marrying life.
• India
20 May 10
You are also right friend, i will marry after i will reach my goal but this will be my only love. If she missed then life time i won't go for another one. I think i have to make her close to my relatives so that they will be helpful while talking with my parents....... Thank you very much friend.