What Do You Feel When You Are Blamed For Something You Didn't Do...??  

These days whenever I have been blamed for something that was nothing to do with me I generally just let people believe what they want to... it seems easier than to fight and try and prove my innocence... normally in this situation unless there is proof, people will generally believe what they want to believe, regardless of what you do or say, and above all it is so frustrating.

Of course I will feel sad if someone blames me for something i did not do. And I will not just sit in the corner. I will have to do something to prove to him that I am not responsible for any of his accusations and that he needs to issue a public apology or something to retract his false accusations. It is my integrity as a person that he's messing up with and he should know better than that. He must realize how will he feels if I did the same thing with him.

If u knw u havent done it then y u worry??..Law and justice is what u shud look for, then. Few things to have a check bout d matter is - Proofs and eveidences, as long as there is none, no worries at all. If ther are proofs, even then ur on d legal side, as long as u knw u havent done it, cuz then u shud have a sharp eye towards the game that is being played in case it affects u or ur belongings, if ur being blamed by some ppl who have evil intentions, then u wud want to try to do some spywork and cunning games.To make it short, study the whole scenario and the matter, to have more say or response whn ur blamed.

This happens to me alot. I tell them I didn't do it, but they just keep saying I did it. I feel hurt, like why would they blame it on me? What is it about me that they think that I would do that? I explain to them very clearly that I didn't do what they are accusing me of, and why I wouldn't have done it, but they keep on saying "You did it." Then I start to get upset, and I tell them "Just because you say I did it, doesn't mean I did it." Before I've just agreed with them. I'm like ok I did it. And then they ask why I did it. I'm tell them "I don't know you said I did it, so maybe you know why I did it." I don't really have any advice for you to get out of that situation. If you figure it out let me know.

hi sagar,
Ya,everyone probably has had that situation,and me,i'm like you too,i have had too many of it,and it has only made me numb.I don't really care,if i'm blamed for nothing,if i fail to prove my innocence,i'll just ignore the person and their comment,because i know that i'm nothing like that,and i'm true to myself.

if i were blamed to the things i didn't do i will surely get angry at first. and ask why.

certainly i wouldn't try to explain my side to them. it is hard to explain to a person who has their conclusion already. it is very hard to prove my innocence in that situation. what i will do is do not mind them, go out and make myself calm for being angry. as long as i know in my heart i didn't do anything, that is enough for me to go on with my life. i will let them think what they think of me, i do not care. i know myself better than them. have a nice day!

I will feel sad but I will definitely help myself and fight for what is right. I won't let anyone blame me for something I did not do. It is not fair for other people to just blame. Instead they should seek for the truth and find evidence in order to know what really happened and to find who is really at fault. But blaming should only be secondary because the top priority should be finding solution and solving the problem.

I get very frustrated when i get blamed for something i didn't do. People want to believe you are guilty. You get tired of having to prove your innocence to them. Nobody likes to be accused of something. Not being believed is even worse.

Of course, i would feel very bad. Nobody wants to be blamed of something that he/she didn't do. I really hate it. I think the best thing to do is just ignore it. You know that you didn't do it and you are true to yourself. I hate those people who accused without any proofs.

Sometimes the other person's mind is made up and there is nothing you can say or do to change their mind. That is very hard to accept. But I just present my facts and hope that they will convince. And if they don't, I try to accept that some battles can't be won.