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bab3449 (18)   ranked 1,482 out of 1,856 in christian 2 years ago

As a christian is it really necessary to attend church every Sunday in order to be certified as a true believer of Christ? I stopped going to church a while back because all my One Faith Christian Church does is pray throughout the services. I understand that prayers are the means to communicate with God, but standing in front of the altar, to pray for the most part of the services is a bit too much. I left the church because I felt it was kind of ridiculous having the pastor pray for the congregation all the time. Since I left I have found consolation in the TV Church channels. And guess what? I am more closer to God now. The services on TV are based on the explanation of the Bible verses which I find very inspiring. However, I miss going to church. I miss giving out the tithes that one is supposed to give to God.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. learn2earn (16936)   ranked 7 out of 1,856 in christian   2 years ago

Prayer is good but I believe that it is better to pray longer in our private closet rather than take much time to pray in church. I hope that you pray to God that He will lead you to a better Church that believes in the bible, preaching, soul-winning, church attendance, giving, and prayer. Jesus Christ purchased the Church with His blood. Therefore, it is important to Him. We don't need to question God about whether it is necessary to follow Hebrews 10:25 or not. Have you tried a fundamental bible believing Church?

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. donsky14 (3563)   ranked 724 out of 1,856 in christian   2 years ago

For me what matters is how sincere you are of being a Christian. On how you love God and follow his will. Its not about attending the services everyday. In the end it boils up to you living the life of a Christian.


bab3449 (18)   ranked 1,482 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

Well put. I kind of feel that way myself.

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. kharlav (1317)   ranked 470 out of 1,856 in christian   2 years ago

GOing to church alone won't make a person be closer to God. A person who does it for the sake of it wont be closer to God because he must do it because He loves God and have a genuine relationship with him. It will just become religiosity without love and relationship. But going to church is important because you learn about God, you will be able to serve, praise and worship him. And you will also be connected with God if you will go to church. The church is important and choosing the right one is more important. Your church will lead you to growth or stagnation, so you have to pick the right church.


bab3449 (18)   ranked 1,482 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

You know I've been to many churches, but I would always quit because I found the people there not very receptive of people who don't contribute money to their cause. Most of those churches are always looking at your pocket. If you can't give out as much money as they would want you to, they would stare you in the face as if you do not belong.


myLot reputation of 90/100. kharlav (1317)   ranked 470 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

That's not good. The house of God should not be about money but about God. If I were you, ask God the right church for you. THat's what I did, though it took me 2 years to be in the right church but it is better than not to be in the right church at all. Pray to God, I know He will not hesitate to answer your prayer. He will let you meet the right people and be at the right place. Stay at that church for the meantime, anyway, church is not about you/me but about God. Just go there to worship God for now. I know God will be gracious and merciful to you and He will bless you for doing such.

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4. wishpony1953 (1)   2 years ago

I totally agree that you do not have to attend church to be a true Christian. I have found that many churches are filled with hypocrisy and they are out for the interests of the people who are running those churches. I believe that the sabbath is on Saturday which is another discussion altogether. But if you are Christian in your heart, talk to Jesus, pray when your life is good or bad, that is what the true meaning of Christianity is. My tithes go to people that are in my family that are my friends that are in need of help when God has given me the means to provide. I am there for them to give them support and help them out when I am able. I am closer to God than I have ever been myself and know that the tribulations that I go through are to strengthen me and to help others along the way in their journey.


mammukake (1)  2 years ago

definitely no.. I am sorry if i affront anyone,but I am sure and so much sure i am much closer with god by myself,with no priest or church.As we see,there is many priests who have been very very bad,so i do not need any priest between me and god and about church..then i go to church if i want to,but i dont feel that i need to,i think it doesnt make me any better..my home is my church:))
(forgive me my bad english )


bab3449 (18)   ranked 1,482 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

I quite agree with what both of you, Wishpony, Mammukake, have said.

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. gennyk (5760)   2 years ago

not at all. to be more closer to God is to love His creation especially the human beings. going to church is like spending time with God, listen the word of God and giving thanks to God for blessings He has given.

we will be more closer to God if we are able to serve people, share the blessings and do a little help to less fortunate ones. that is my opinion. have a nice day!

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. eileenleyva (2949)   ranked 23 out of 1,856 in christian   2 years ago

bab, the 3rd commandment tells us to keep holy the Sabbath day. That means it is mandatory for us to go to church. The community of Christians praying is wonderful to see!cheering


bab3449 (18)   ranked 1,482 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

I think I have to go familiarize myself with the 10 commandments again. Does "Keep Holy the Sabbath Day" means we should keep it holy in the church or in our hearts?Please explain to me Eileenleyva why I cannot "keep holy the Sabbath" at home by watching the services on TV, on the Church channels. Isn't it like Church?


myLot reputation of 93/100. eileenleyva (2949)   ranked 23 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

The media is one way of disseminating the faith. It is meant to somehow reach out to far flung places where people do not know Christ yet. It is also meant to render services to those who cannot make it physically to church - like the aged, the indisposed, the handicapped, etcetera. But if one is well and able, what is impeding him to unite with the body of Christians in the church. In the church, we can collectively sing praises to God, the Almighty Father and give thanks for all our blessings. In the church we can also know firsthand about the problems of our neighbors. Then we can lend a helping hand. When we do that, God will give us a wide grin. You will like it, God smiling down upon you, I mean.rofl


bab3449 (18)   ranked 1,482 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

You have a point. A gathering of believers coming together as one in a church is a good thing, especially in the eyes of God. God wants each one of us to be sociable and to love our neighbors. However, spending time alone with God would be preferable to God because Faith in Christ is an individual experience, not a collective experience.


myLot reputation of 93/100. eileenleyva (2949)   ranked 23 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

Personal and private prayers are good. Makes our faith mature. Brings us ever closer to the Almighty. But God had given us a commandment. Sabbath is a day to commune with the people, giving thanks and praising God. We must only obey.angel


myLot reputation of 15/100. itsmychoice (229)   ranked 848 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

Eil, I don't think you understand what the bible is saying, first we are the church, the church you describe is just a building. Did Jesus only go to church? No he went out and gathered up his own, and prayed often by himself in the garden. God is in every believers heart and he knows your heart. The bible even states that you should go off to yourself to pray. Going to church is symbolic as a place of refuge and prayers are gathered together, and gives Christians a way to know who are the true believers who are around you.


myLot reputation of 93/100. eileenleyva (2949)   ranked 23 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

w00t Care to read my answers again?evil grin

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7. myLot reputation of 32/100. Augustinev (5227)   ranked 612 out of 1,856 in christian   2 years ago

As a Christan , I will go church every Sunday and it is must . I think no need to go to church to closer to God or church. church and leaders teaching about Jesus and his principles . To close to Christ does not close Christ. At we must understand who is God and power. When we see our neighbor as our brother or son or friend , we see this man as God or Christ. No body can see God or Christ in our naked eye. only faith and friendship we can see god.
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8. myLot reputation of 94/100. sender621 (12069)   ranked 505 out of 1,856 in christian   2 years ago

Christians must find God in their hearts first. Churches are places of worship. We can come together to worship God. A church is still just a building to meet in. If you don't know Christ in your heart, your christianity is at stake.

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9. jajabugz (53)   2 years ago

in my opinion what ever matter is the important is you are still in God's love.. and you follow his will.., I'm glad to hear that you much closer to God now., and I'm blessed because there are TV Church channels like that and so they evangelize the word of God..
HaPpy mYLotTing ?_?


bab3449 (18)   ranked 1,482 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

Yes. Isn't it wonderful to be reminded about the Word every minute of the day. I have become addicted to watching TV church services every night before I go to bed and every morning when I wake up. The Church channel TBN is about the greatest gift God has given me. I would recommend that every Christian tune in to the channels every day. This could help them understand the Bible better and help them focus more on Jesus.

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10. myLot reputation of 86/100. KarissaAngel (264)   2 years ago

I read of few of your responders and agree with most of them. You can't really say going to church on a regular basis will make you a true christian. Churches have changed and each one preaches something different. You must find your own way to speak to God. As one of your responders stated ... it woudl be better to pray to God in a closet. God wants the alone time with you. Church brings fellowship to be with other christians. You can do that outside of church also.


myLot reputation of 86/100. KarissaAngel (264)  2 years ago

As far as tithes, if you have a church you use to be a member or non-member of you can mail in your tithes. Most churches will send you envelopes in the mail. Mine does.


bab3449 (18)   ranked 1,482 out of 1,856 in christian  2 years ago

Thanks for your input. Well said. God Bless you.

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