The reason to love and the reason to hate  

I don't know that it's necessarily a logical thought progression, but I can see how it might creep up on you. Personally, I believe that you are unable to ACTUALLY hate someone unless you have loved that person first or they have seriously harmed someone you actually do love. I doubt since you're still dating that you have to worry about her hating you at the moment.

It may just be the physical attraction or perhaps she just can't express it well. I hope she finds something beautiful in you to tell you one day why she loves you so much. You have not said why you love her.

Personally, I think if you can find a reason to love, then it's not love.Like: I love her because she's tall and pretty, I love him because he's the best football player in town and all chicks admire him.When you really love someone, you can't explain what it is.It feels good to be together and you don't need an explanation.
Hate of a woman isn't always hate.Especially your own woman.These dark clouds may mean lack of attention, tenderness, compliments.I think these are things that make women melt.Use them as often as you can.

Love and hate aren't that far apart from each other on the big scale of emotions. Both are difficult emotions to explain, and the reasoning behind either is just as much of a mystery as what happened to Amelia Earhart.

Maybe shes unable to come up with a particular reason for loving you. Sometimes it's better to just go with it, instead of looking for an explanation for everything.

Usually, a women loves a man who gives her a feeling of security to build the nest.
Someone who has money or a good job.
Ten years after we were married my wife told me she loves because I am a good lover a good musician and music teacher. But also because I have a ggod job at the Ministry of Health.

sometimes people find it difficult to disclose the reasons for loving someone. There is something that is sometimes difficult to be expressed in words. I find it fair if your girlfriend can not say the reason he loves you. Maybe there is something about yourself that makes it interested but can not be disclosed.