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I may be out of line saying this, but it sounds like your mother in law just wants something to complain and be rude about. I would have been extremely ticked off if I were in your shoes and that was the only response they could give me whenever I was trying to make an effort...something they clearly have never done with the exception of complaining that they want you to visit.

Hi, danielle101282. Your mother-in-law just wants to keep mess going on. She knows that you and your husband are just as busy as her husband and she is. If they wanted to come visit you, they should say something about this to you, rather than having a cold shoulder. That is just her childish way of acting because she is scared to come out and ask you all this. If she wants you all to see each more then she should come out and say so. Either her or her husband should. I know that it can be very difficult to see each other more often. I don't go to school. I am at home with my kids, and I still don't have time to see my in-laws as often. I sometimes worried what they might would have thought about me, but I stopped caring. I don't know why in-laws always expect the daughter or son in law to make a move when it has to do with visiting. Since they would rather see you so badly, they can mention it to you and to your husband. Don't let your mother-in-law make you feel bad about not asking either.