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myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel 2 years ago

I have to admit one thing that I love to do and haven't for quite some time is travel. No matter what form, I love visiting other places and it doesn't have to be out of the state that I live in either. I can go an hour from home and be happy visiting a little town.

I must admit though, when I lived in Hawaii, I had a place that I loved to go and just felt comfortable there, it was actually a little beach area. I would take a book, a cup of coffee and my favorite folding chair, sit close to the water, so my feet would be in the water the whole time keeping me cool as I read a book and drank my coffee. I think this was probably only one of the times that I would actually sit still. I felt as if I was in my own secret paradise.

Today, I think about that little secret place of mine and miss it oh so much. I haven't found a new secret paradise yet, it seems I don't really have time for that these days.

Do you like to travel? Do you have a special place that you like to visit often?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. richnai (5180)   2 years ago

Hi again, Chulce!

In my eyes I am one of the luckiest people in the world. 2 1/2 years ago I retired to Thailand and live in a busy tourist city. But when I want to get away from all tourist I will go to my farm up north. It is a 9 hour bus trip which is a bit boring, and then a 30 minute ride on a motorbike which is too exciting sometimes and then my real home.

Nobody speaks English and my broken Thai is not too helpful, but it is so peaceful and relaxing. LOL my avatar picture is actually taken in front of the house.

Lovely Thai people come (the only foreigner always attracts people) to visit me, bringing sweets or something that they think I will buy and it is My Paradise.

I hope that you can find yours again! happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

Wow, congrats on finding the perfect place to live. That is wonderful that you are able to have more than one home to find adventures in.

For me, moving from one state to another is the only thing that I have done. But, with it came a new world of change. My husband and I decided to open our own business a tea and coffee shop. But, with the economy doing what it did, we were forced to close our doors and now are struggling to get things back to some sort of order. I only hope that we will achieve this goal and not feel stressed all the time like we do.


myLot reputation of 99/100. richnai (5180)  2 years ago

I am sorry to hear. That has to be so frustrating. Here you heart is so involved and to see it go sour because of the economy sucks.

I hope that it recovers soon. I used to love to go to coffee and tea shops. I am not really a tea person but I like the shops where you can look at the samples of loose tea and smell them.

Take care!


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

It was a lot of fun, but a lot for two people to handle, if we could have afforded it, we would have hired employees, but, couldn't it was really sad.

I loved walking in and smelling the warm muffins cooling and hearing my husband singing to what ever song was on the radio.


myLot reputation of 99/100. richnai (5180)  2 years ago

Hopefully someday America will be alive again and you can do it again!


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

I don't think I would want to, there was way to much stress owning the business and so little actual personal time for the family.


myLot reputation of 99/100. richnai (5180)  2 years ago

yes, I can understand that too. I think I spend more time in my store than I do here in myLots....rolleyes and thats a lot!

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2. myLot reputation of 83/100. charylady (376)   ranked 1,899 out of 5,013 in travel   2 years ago

i love going to the beach; especially watching sunsets on the beach. i don't get to go as much as i'd like to because the nearest beach to where i live is about a two hour drive. and now that it's summer there are just too many people. i like the beach when it's quiet.


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

I must say that it is by far more relaxing to hear the waves crashing around you drowning out the noise of traffic from a near by road. Or seeing the turtles creating nests on the beach at my feet, knowing that they didn't find me a threat. Where I live now, we have the Guadalupe river, it isn't quite the same, but, I do find peace in being near the water.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. lealuvy2j (611)   ranked 215 out of 5,013 in travel   2 years ago

My answer will surprise you because I think this is not much of a secret but my secret paradise is the nearest mall because whenever I just want to get away and spend some quality time with myself. I just go there and watch a movie alone or play at the arcade. It is not exactly what most would think of a secret paradise but when in the city, it is very difficult to find a beach where one can just chill so I settled for the mall. lol. lol


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

You are right, your answer is quite surprising. I like to shop, but after a while, I get bored with it and don't want to do it any more, I find it to be a chore, I think it is because every week, I do the grocery shopping and any other items we may need to get by with.

If I shop for clothing, I tend to look and grab something that catches my eye. I don't like to try clothes on in the store, I think it takes to much time. I feel I have a pretty good idea of what my body size is and well, frankly am a pretty good judge of what might look okay on me. Yes, I have come across those that don't, but that's okay, you can return the items.

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. gennyk (5760)   2 years ago

i do not like to travel, because i do have enough patience of waiting what time we will arrive, but i do love to visit my parents province. being there makes me more relax, free from all pollution and noisy city. i like the ambiance, trees, wind and beach. feels like i am more closer to nature. have a nice day!


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

That happens a lot too when you are traveling. Even traveling by automobile, all you have is the scenery to watch, unless you can read or do some sort of small craft project on your lap.

It is worse for kids on long trips.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. karen1969 (1205)   ranked 1,238 out of 5,013 in travel   2 years ago

Well, that place in Hawaii sounds idyllic! I would love that with the book and the coffee! thumbup I have a couple of special places I have visited over the years. I used to love going to Cambridge (in the UK, where I live), as it is pretty and peaceful. When my Uncle killed himself in 1987, my parents and I had a day out in Cambridge and it was very calming and good to get away from the stress.


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

Sorry to hear about your Uncle. It is good to have a place that you can go to where you do feel comfort and peace.

So many of us find comfort in food, but sometimes that just isn't enough, we do need to get away from our troubles and worries just to think and hopefully get into a better state of mind.

I wish I had that little piece of beach right now, I could sure use it.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. maximax8 (17650)   ranked 3 out of 5,013 in travel   2 years ago

When I lived in Kent Folkestone was my secret paradise. I liked to walk along the cliffs looking at the spectacular sea views. I enjoyed walking through the sub tropical garden. I saw many hardy looking palms in it. I moved to where I live now five years ago. In this area I have two places I think at great to be paradises. I know of a stretch of coastline with fine sea views. There are some hardy palms, wooden benches and a view of a joined to land island.


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

I can only imagine what the views must be like. Wow, I love nature, it is amazing what it can do for your soul.

I find the drive into work peaceful and helpful to help me unwind sometimes, but I know that drive is only leading me either home or back to work.

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7. myLot reputation of 87/100. dwyanewade03 (536)   2 years ago

Hey chulce I can relate to that, and I know how it feels to be far from that place you really like and call you own secret paradise. I know you will really miss it if you haven't been there for long now. When we visited a resort last April with my friends, we feel like we don't want to leave the place anymore, because we wanted to live there already, funny coz everytime we see our pictures taken there we really miss every memories we had there and we feel both happiness and sadness. I really want to go back there but we have no time now because we are all preparing for college, but we talked about it before we leave that we are going to visit the place again. The ambiance there is very relaxing and you feel like you are very safe and fulfilled.


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

I felt extremely spoiled living in Hawaii, once in a while I do miss the beaches and the peaceful waves lapping up at my feet.

But, it was a small island and it was hard to actually travel anywhere if we wanted to visit our family.

Once in a while I wonder if we will ever get to go back and visit Hawaii some day. It would be nice.

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. nixxi76 (1244)   ranked 4,917 out of 5,013 in travel   2 years ago

Your secret paradise sounds so nice. I sort of have one myself and it's just a walk away. I live at a beach and in the evenings the water goes to a color of white from the pink reflection of the sky. There's a little semi-circle cove-like spot where no one ever goes so it's private as well. I like to do the same as you when it comes to taking my book along and it's so peaceful.

Take care


The beach at my place

myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

It must be pure heaven living on the beach. At one time, I had wished for a house on the beach. A part of me was frightened of it of course because of all the stories that I would hear growing up when bad weather would hit the coasts, but during the calmer parts of seasons, I never let it bother me, i thought how great it would be to fall asleep and wake hearing the waves crash against the shore, being able to look out across the water during sun up and sun down. The smell of the salt in the air and watching the birds that would wonder around the beach area.

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. med889 (4583)   ranked 498 out of 5,013 in travel   2 years ago

I like traveling and this year I am going to my small new paradise found in the Indian Ocean near the Island of Mauritius there is another one named Rodrigues so I am planning to go there with my boyfriend for the last month of the year for a well deserved holiday.


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

That sounds like a lot of fun, I hope you and your boyfriend have a wonderful adventure. I am so jealous. I wish I could afford to get away from it all and just relax all my cares away. Oh, to be young once again.

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10. myLot reputation of 89/100. evepin (643)   ranked 3,461 out of 5,013 in travel   2 years ago

the beach and the mountains for my family i guess. anything that exposes me to nature, i consider my secret paradise.


myLot reputation of 98/100. chulce (695)   ranked 232 out of 5,013 in travel  2 years ago

Isn't nature a ton of fun. I love playing in the dirt, watching little ones make mud pies and just getting to explore their world and all the good that is still around us.

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