Do you check up your partner's cell-phone?  

i wouldnt do it... i know it seems like something so easy to do, and it would cure the curious, but i feel that it is an invasion of privacy, although I dont care if my b/f looks in my phone I have nothing to hide... if you are worried that he may cheat or is cheating then perhaps you should talk to him, in a realtionship you do need some trust in a relationship, and if you have no trust then it will be hard to keep a relationship going, as you will always fear that in the back of your mind... if your boyfriend was to cheat you would find out, as these things normally come out, because mistakes get made, and these people get caught out.

I trust my current partner fully and don't have any desire to check his phone.

With that in mind, yes I checked my ex's phone. I knew he was lying to me about a lot of things. I'd go to the use the computer we shared and there would pop up a message from some girl talking about hanging out on a night when he told me he was doing something else. So when he was in the shower and he got a text from a girl, I'd sometimes take a look. Yes it hurt me a lot because I found many things I didn't really want to know. I found he had cheated on me many times. And of course when I brought it up he'd just yell at me for going thru his personal stuff. Like it was my fault he was caught lying.

Oh well, luckily that drama is gone. I wouldn't really want my partner going thru my phone, although I have nothing to hide. But I respect his privacy and I trust he's always telling me the truth. I just have to ask him "hey who are you texting so late right now?" and he'll show me the text messages. It lets me know he's hiding nothing. Thank goodness!

NO! for any reason cp of one person is personal. I am married and never touches my husbands cp, thats how i respect him. if it rings infront of me and my husband is not there to pick it up, i give him the cp without looking at the person calling to him. Yes, thats how i respect him and his personal things. so that must go with friends and relatives too, unless in emergency basis!

One of my friends was telling me how his exgirlfriend kept checking his phonebook and text messages. It made him feel uncomfortable and insulted because he was faithful to her. He felt that she did not respect his love at all.

I do not go over the stuff my boyfriend has on his cellphone because he actually does not talk to girls and has only few male friends. We basically have nothing to hide from each other because we are very open about with whom we talk. We even show each other the text messages we get from other people so we can gossip. Actually, we both have similar personality!

no,no,no..
I never do it . I hate this kind of behavior for I do not like others check up my mobile phone .so I hate check up my partner's cell-phone.
if you do it for you do not trust and respect them.
it is banned .

i'm not the nosey type but looking at a partner's cell phone has always interested me. i think its because you wanna know if they're cheating on you or talking to someone more than they are talking to you! that would be a no no for me! :(

well, i dont often look at my husband's cellphone. more on the pictures perhaps. now as to the message, sometimes i do, sometimes i dont. he said he doesnt mind and also because sometimes he asks me to text or call someone for him using his cellphone. i trust my husband anyway so i feel i dont need to check on his stuff.

That's the worst thing you can do to your partner. Checking your partner's cellphone is invading your partner's privacy. It means you don't trust your partner and that is also a sign of disrespect. If you have things that you want to discuss with your partner, be honest and frank. I consider checking one's cellphone prying which is not good. This affects your relationship. As much as possible, give your partner the freedom.

I have no intentions to look into my husband's cell phone,in my opinion, that is matters of respect and trust. Also it depends on your partner's attitude, if your partner don't mind and don't feel uncomfortable, it's OK that you do it. think maybe you want to control your partner or you have no sense of security

definetly not ok. evading somebody elses privacy and lack of trust even if your feeling suspicious