Why do girls still fall in love with married men?
By aaronfyzeon
@aaronfyzeon (1919)
Philippines
3 responses
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
15 Aug 10
I think the married men just try to make you feel so special compared to a guy who is single. I think they spend more time and energy trying to conquer a female who is wanting a relationship. I really don't think that neither really want each other, after all why would a woman want a man who proves he's a cheater? Why would a man want a woman who accepted him when he had a commitment? It's rare when I do see men leave their wife for this lady. Reality is in a few years she will be like his wife, a woman he is no longer attracted to for whatever reason. Women fall in love with their hearts by the end of the break up whether they sometimes wanted to or not.
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@aaronfyzeon (1919)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
Exactly! Why would I fall in love with a man that is obviously cheating!? Why would I do injustice to myself knowing that I am just only the second person in his heart if he already has a family of his own. He would make it his top priority then most of the times. It will have only some time that he will prioritize his mistress because he doesn't have any responsibility to you. Have a great week ahead and thank you for the nice response.
@juneramir (334)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
Personally speaking, there are two reasons for women there are two reasons for womenmen. Firstly, wild attraction.And secondly, vulnerability. For a woman, a married man represents a certain security she craves. A woman feels that a married man - compared to a bachelor - can meet her emotional and material needs in a better manner. Getting a married man signifies a triumph of one woman over another woman. He's a trophy catch. To have him, is about making the impossible.
If a woman wanted a fling, she could have had it with anybody. But a married man at her beck and call makes her value herself more... that he's willing to throw it all over for her. It increases her self-esteem. Mind you,she's enjoying this fantasy, as much as his wooing, his experience and the way he makes her feel extra special.
Have a nice day :)
@aaronfyzeon (1919)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
Hello dear! Where did you get this answer? It has been posted by the first answer to my topic. It is nice to find someone out here who is my fellow school mate. Have a wonderful day ahead.
@shia88 (4570)
• Malaysia
15 Aug 10
Hi,
I should say "love is blind",
and be it married or still single, everyone can just
fall in love with each other.
I do heard some stories of a lady fall in love
with a married man and even have deep relationship.
It is kinda complicated and it is best to stop this kind
of relationship.
It may not do good to our own life, as we are third party and destroy other
people marriage.
Let;s put yourself as the man's wife, you also don't want your husband to have
another woman outside.
So we as a woman ,don't every try to interrupt other people's
marriage.
@aaronfyzeon (1919)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
Thank you for the enlightening response. Yes we are the sane women who knows the repercussions of being involved as the third party. But how about the other women who just let themselves fall in love with these married men for whatever reasons they have in mind? It should be with the men which self discipline must start for themselves. Have a great week ahead.



