marrige or comprise

in todays concept ,marriage has become as pact or adjustment ,we have grivances still we carry on ,but in western world they do not do pact ,they go for another marriage.

Well, when you are married to someone, I sure hope you are in love with them, otherwise, I don't see how that marriage can survive. Next, marriage is all about COMPROMISE. When you are in a marriage, a lot of things are given up, and for women it is usually worse than it is for men. Women, often times, have to give up their maiden name, or their parents's family name, and this can be so hard for many women to do because that name is part of their identity. Often times you have to give up things, that you may not want to give up at first, but you do it for the greater good of the relationship and your future with that person. And believe me, you are each going to have to give up something, and if you aren't will to work with your spouse and give up what you have to give up, then start examining your priorities and how much your spouse really means to you? If your possessions mean more than your spouse, you have problem. Yes, you have to schedule things a certain way, you have to make time for the person that you are with or else the marriage fails, and you have to be able to turn to them. They have to be your rock. Marriage is a huge commitment. It is also the reason why many people today are choosing not to get married because of everything that they have to give up.