I dont know what to do??
By ynahh1
@ynahh1 (454)
September 8, 2010 9:44pm CST
Am stock in the relationship t5hat is so hard to handle! If your going to choose in between the person you love so much and the father of your son but this person is irresponsible and left your family and the person that deeply in love with you,that can own the responsibilities that is not for him.Who will you choose.?
3 responses
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
9 Sep 10
Hi,
Love is something that can't be bought but if he is irresponsible and there is a huge probability that you are going to suffer if you live with him, why do you want to get involved in such a relationship? I am not sure whether you are married or not, if you are then there's not much for you to do rather than trying to improve your relationship with your husband. Furthermore you love him so it's not so hard from your part to accept him, just on his part to learn how to be a responsible man.
If you are not married yet if I were you I would choose the man who loves me and willing to carry the responsibility. Even though I don't love him but at least I know he loves me and I can build the love over time.
Anyway, everything is up to you and I am only giving you some suggestions. Good luck!
@ynahh1 (454)
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9 Sep 10
Its hard to make a decision right now especially am thinking the future of my kid.We are not married and try to live-in only to find out that he chooses to follow his parents and not his own family,we separated for 6 months but still we see each other he made so many promises,he said that just give him a chance and time we will be together again and he will marry me,but for how long i should wait??i also find out that he has girlfriend who also has a daughter,it was so painful in my part.honestly am mad but deeply in-love with him,and here comes the person i met that he accept me for being what i am i really don't know what to do!.as much as possible i don't want to make the decision that will ruin my entire life so am confused.I HOPE WHEN THE TIME TO MAKE THE DECISION I MADE THE RIGHT ONE.
@ynahh1 (454)
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9 Sep 10
Its hard to make a decision right now especially am thinking the future of my kid.We are not married and try to live-in only to find out that he chooses to follow his parents and not his own family,we separated for 6 months but still we see each other he made so many promises,he said that just give him a chance and time we will be together again and he will marry me,but for how long i should wait??i also find out that he has girlfriend who also has a daughter,it was so painful in my part.honestly am mad but deeply in-love with him,and here comes the person i met that he accept me for being what i am i really don't know what to do!.as much as possible i don't want to make the decision that will ruin my entire life so am confused.I HOPE WHEN THE TIME TO MAKE THE DECISION I MADE THE RIGHT ONE.
@damned_dle (3942)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
Ofcourse you should choose the person you are inlove right now. After all, your ex left you and is irresponsible. You deserve to be happy too.
@ynahh1 (454)
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9 Sep 10
thanks for commenting....its really tough decision for me on who should i choose! i hope at the end of this journey i will experience the happiness that i deserve...for now i think i need to under come the circumstances,the fact that am torn between lovers, and if ever am ready i can make the right desicion,it will be easier for me to move on.thanks god bless you!!
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
I say just raise the child alone. There's a big chance that this guy you fell in love with will leave you in the future. I, for one thing, don't want any kid who's not mine. It just seems like whenever i look at this kid, i'll see the guy who owns him. I suggest you just stand up as a single mother. It's for your own good.
