What do friends got to do with one's relationship?
@starlight_starbright (810)
Philippines
September 9, 2010 9:41pm CST
We are four girl friends. One is a lesbian who has a steady girlfriend but still screws up with her ex-girlfriend. I don't whoever she chooses among her present or ex girlfriend.
Here's thing. My friend moved to a place nearby her ex-girlfriend's house. Now, her ex expresses some long lost feeling to my friend and there i think they are together again. It's ok with us, as her friends.
There came a time that she was so pissed off about her ex. Her ex went to her place with our other friend. Unexpectedly my friend and her present girlfriend came home and good thing our other friend and her ex was already outside the apartment. We had a "heart-to-heart" talk. She told us that she still loved her ex but she already came up with a decision that she stick to her present girlfriend. She wants to avoid her.
But now? We just found out that they got back together. I don't understand. I don't care about who her girlfriend "is" or "was". What I'm concerned about is...why did she make us believe a lie? why did she said that us and there we'll find out that she's cheating on her girlfriend?
2 responses
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
what your friend is doing is really not good. But I am sure she has reasons as to why she prefer not to tell you what she is doing. Maybe she thinks that it is better that her friends know nothing about what is really happening with her love life so when time comes that the cheating that she is doing, you will be left out of all the blame in case one of her girlfriends will learn about it. That way, you wont feel guilty or pressured about it. But since you all know about what she is doing, then you can talk to your friend and advise her that it is wrong to be "paddling on two rivers"...she will surely have a rough time getting through it..
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@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
That exactly is my problem! How can I help her. I care about her and I wanted to be there during that "rough times". I don't want to be there when nothing can be done to help. Whew! All we can do now is understand her. But to show that, we will be giving a little space. I hate that!
@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
Yeah...thanks but I can't stop worrying about her. I don't trust her decisions. Seeing how she deals with this matter makes me worry about her more. :-(
