good days...bad days...
By bokal2703
@bokal2703 (802)
Philippines
October 11, 2010 7:49am CST
we all have good days and bad days...when you are feel you are struck with bad luck in most days, do you blame fate for it? do you blame someone for giving you a hard time? will you leave someone who loves you because you think he/she is not doing any good to make your life lighter?
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@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
Well, there's the usual saying "It is easier said than done". But for me, I try not to blame anybody, for I believe that when I have those bad days, they might probably experience it too. So I know the feeling, and I don't want them to blame me to if in case. And I would not leave someone I love just because he is useless for making my life lighter. I know sometimes, I can do nothing for him to lift him up, but still, he stays with me, so I want to do the same.
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@eurekafemme (5874)
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
Honestly, i don't blame fate nor anyone if I am having a hard time. though there were times that I'd wish I never met the one who has been giving me a hard time....
But , it wasn't his fault. I chose to be part of his life without forcing me to so I really can not blame him if I suffer because of him.Fate has nothing to do with it, too.
Why would I leave someone who loves me because he is a pain in the butt? I don't have to depend my whole life and future on him?I don't think it is fair. Besides, love isn't giving up when things turn topsy turvy, when you realized that he isn't the ideal man for you.If I leave him,it only means one thing, I DO NOT LOVE HIM ANYMORE(that is, without kids to consider).
But, if such person is pulling you down, by all means, leave him.It is not healthy to be stuck with someone who has no plan of bringing the best in you but rather make your life a living hell.
I have a choice to dwell in good days despite life's hardships or suffer on bad days for as long as I can take....It is always my call, I am to decide, not fate, not someone else.This is my life....
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
11 Oct 10
Every day is new and different. Some of these days will be filled with joy and happiness. some will unfortunately be filled with sadness, disappointment and pain. We can't choose what the day will bring to us. All we can do is cope with what is before us.
@NoWayRo (1061)
• Romania
11 Oct 10
I just blame the day. I keep saying "Bad day, bad, bad day!", hoping I can train it to get better, like you train a puppy :)
It doesn't work, to be honest. But if it's just one day - not a long period of misfortune - then it usually goes away with a long hot bath and a good night's sleep.
