Lonely christmas
By bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
Philippines
December 23, 2010 11:46pm CST
I think this is the most lonelies christmas I'm in. I don't even feel its already december 24 and for me its just another ordinary day. So sad. No work no money no life no happiness. And I can't even go online in regular basis because of some house hold choirs.
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6 responses
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
Hello debs90, It's not that easy to being cheered up when you're alone though. It takes some ones courage to fight the loneliness that they feel when ever they are alone and sad. Well, merry xmas. @bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
@LetranKnight25
Its seem your highjacking my thread. I thought I'm not the one who open this one as you have reply to all of those who response to me. Their replies are not meant to you but to me.
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
24 Dec 10
dear bulastika, your Xmas will not be lonely because your friends on mylot, and that includes me, are always there with you. So be cheerful and even if there is nobody around you in their gross bodies, there is still God and Jesus Christ who are always with you and will never leave you as long as you are on this planet.I have never celebrated Xmas because it is not in my religion but like you i too am all alone at home but it never bothers me and just as you have said, for me all days are the same, even those belonging to my own religion.
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
Hello Veejay,
That is very right, a lot of people here even though they have events and parties do have time to be in mylot. And it's really a shelter to those who are sad and lonely. I think with the job comes with a sacrifice being away from the family, but of course, it's worth the visit if you see them and talk to them once in a while.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
@veejay19
Thank you. That's true. But I hope that I will also receive a gift. A christmas gift that that gift is a job. Because right now I really need a job. So far until now I'm still looking but I give up sadness. I'm thinking I must try and try and try and try and try and try until I reach minimum in mylot. lols.
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
Hello eds,
I used to have this kind of emo all the time, but some times, money and other private posessions can only make us happy once in a moment. But in a while we tend to look for something else and lose our interest on other stuff. I learned something from this response, maybe it's me who's being really initiating the loneliness. Have a great day.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 10
Stay optimistic, my friend ... Christmas always brings happiness. You must be confident and believe
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
Hello Advokatku,
That's right but not just on Christmas but evey day of our lives. I know am not exempted from this but we all have our down moments but we have only one life to live. I guess what I am trying to say is that we should always try to motivate ourselves so that we wouldn't be able to let the sad and loneliness to take over us.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
In really what we need is to face reality. We can fake happiness but we can't lie to our self. We can pretend to be happy but deep down we can't lie. But if you have children you must fake it and make your self happy for christmas spirit and for children as well. Until now I'm still looking for a job.
@princess8881 (1294)
• South Korea
24 Dec 10
same here I am away from home and the place where I am in doesnt really celebrate christmas..its so lonely becuase back in my home christmas is a very big event..christmas tree in every house.. and everything...
here nothing..except it is cold...:( I wish I was home:(
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
Hello Princess,
Yeah, of course, we sometimes have to sacrifice for the benefit of our families. Some tend to celebrate it with their own friends and work mates abroad. Am sure you can find it better else where with some people you work with. Sometimes being lonely and sad during christmas would get us even more sad and depressed. Merry Xmas. 
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
Going out means I need to spend money too. lols. So its another problem. Because I don't go out without many. In fact the problem is that I'm not a type of person who lets other pays for my own expenses. That why I need a job and I'm still looking until now.
