After I heard that my crush has a crush on me, my feeling suddenly changed?

You should be happy because your crush suddenly makes a move eh. oH last time you put the name of your crush which is a member of facebook I did check it hhehehe. Your compatible looks like. Good luck on your crush don't change your mind it's an opportunity that you should not surpass.

This actually has a very simple explanation. Your crush was handsome and attractive. So like any other thing that you see hanging outside the shops, you wanted to have him. When we like something we are immediately filled with the desire to own it. When we see a beautiful car, we wish it could be ours. When we see a wonderful house, we wish we could own it. Possessing good things, whether they are of any real use or not, makes you feel powerful. So we run, we rush and we chase. We want to achieve because it works like a motivation and keeps us going. As soon as we achieve it, the motivation vanishes and our engine stops. We never want what we already have. We always want the thing we don't have, as long as we don't have it. Availability ruins the price, competition raises it. It seems he's out of market now.

Yeah i had experienced that one before. I think it does happen coz we only like someone because we are thrilled from the fact that they couldn't possibly like us back. It's the excitement that keeps the feeling of liking someone. But once the thrill is gone and so is the excitement, we don't feel the need to be interested in that person anymore coz there is no challenge. That's how it works when what we have is a simple crush or admiration. But love works in a different way!

Uhmm that's strange. I was thinking if both has same feeling it might turn to a relationship but for you it wasn't.

that's odd. LOL. everytime i hear my crushes having the same feeling with me, i feel flattered. maybe you find it not challenging anymore or another possible reason is that you don't want him to fall for you and eventually take advantage with what you felt for him. I don't know, but those might be the real reason behind that sudden opting out of feelings for that guy you've mentioned. :)

hello! i have experienced that as well. I think that scenario happens because the thrill brought by having a crush disappeared since your crush has a crush on you as well.

I think having crush and suddenly change your feeling about this guy is normal. At some point it is not really love that you are feeling. It could be admiration or attraction. But with the time spent together, you started to know the personality and manner of the person and started to dislike or got turned off. All of this is very normal for teenagers like you. However, you should not take everything seriously because you are still young and there are more to life and lots of changes you will be facing.

hi, i also encountered that, when my crush knew that he is my crush, suddenly my feelings will loose, i dont know why, but i think it because i am shy to him that he already knows he's my crush.