Have u ever make your spouse cry?
By Ifamous
@ifa225 (14468)
Indonesia
7 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
5 Apr 11
Hi ifa 
Well, it was during our starting days... I was quite unaware of how and what should be the right approach. I was sacked from my job (just 4 days after marriage) and I did not tell her about this. But as we were with my parents, I told this to dad and forgot the thing. A few days later, I was re-taken at the same job as the BOSS came to know that it was a conspiracy against me. So when he called up to tell me that I was to re-join from the next day, it was she who picked up the phone. As the message was communicated to her directly from my Boss, she was quite disturbed asto why I did not tell her. I tried hard to explain that it was just something that I did not want to bother her about but somewhere that did wrong for me.
Even today she at times comes up with all her suspicions thinking I am hiding some facts from her... But today, I have no one else to share anything with but her yet she feels this way.
I cannot even dream or think of leaving her anytime forget the forever part. I love her so much
Well, it was during our starting days... I was quite unaware of how and what should be the right approach. I was sacked from my job (just 4 days after marriage) and I did not tell her about this. But as we were with my parents, I told this to dad and forgot the thing. A few days later, I was re-taken at the same job as the BOSS came to know that it was a conspiracy against me. So when he called up to tell me that I was to re-join from the next day, it was she who picked up the phone. As the message was communicated to her directly from my Boss, she was quite disturbed asto why I did not tell her. I tried hard to explain that it was just something that I did not want to bother her about but somewhere that did wrong for me.
Even today she at times comes up with all her suspicions thinking I am hiding some facts from her... But today, I have no one else to share anything with but her yet she feels this way.
I cannot even dream or think of leaving her anytime forget the forever part. I love her so much@ifa225 (14468)
• Indonesia
6 Apr 11
Hi Sid
ohh..the story of yours just like mine too.
my hubby never told me what's up in his job. and you know...he told me the same thing, he won't bother me with his problems.
but i don't think it is not fair since we already married, his problems are mine too. we can solve it together if we just share it.
i just want that he want to share everything with me, it means that i have meaning for him.
I love him too, but there is a time that i want to leave him cause i am tired with his attitude
ohh..the story of yours just like mine too.
my hubby never told me what's up in his job. and you know...he told me the same thing, he won't bother me with his problems.
but i don't think it is not fair since we already married, his problems are mine too. we can solve it together if we just share it.
i just want that he want to share everything with me, it means that i have meaning for him.
I love him too, but there is a time that i want to leave him cause i am tired with his attitude@ifa225 (14468)
• Indonesia
6 Apr 11
I know all part of his life, he came from a broken home parents. he raise without a father and her mother is a busy person to look some money to feed the family.
me and my hubby have the same story about parents. even though i try to understand it, but it always happen again and again.
you can adjust with your life now, i hope he would too. 
never thought that there is so many friends here have the same story like me
never thought that there is so many friends here have the same story like me
@urbandekay (18278)
•
5 Apr 11
Unless you hit them or otherwise physically assault them, you do not make them cry. We are each responsible for our own emotions and mental states. To say another made you cry is equivalent to saying another made you attack them
all the best urban
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
When he asked me to marry him,that was the first time that he cried.
The second time is when i asked him to leave and don't ever bother my life anymore.
i can't believe you have that courage to ask him leave you.
he must be love you so much and want you so bad to be his spouse...
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
I make my husband cry whenever I say I'll leave him and I'm fed up with him.
And when I see him cry, I really feel guilty because my husband has been really patient with me and to see him in that state means that I have probably hit his last straw. I think he really wanted to make our marriage work.
