Back to Me.. / myLot

July 8, 2011 12:38pm CST

I have noticed over the past few months, how I have changed myself to please another- THIS IS NOT ME! My philosophy is..'if you dont like me, I dont really give a monkeys..' yet since meeting my partner of 10 months, I cannot bear the thought he wont like who I really am or what Im really about- And in the pat week..I have been fighting with myself as to whether I am just turning stubbornly bonkers.. Is it a good thing to change yourself for another, especially if you are at risk of losing much more than what you entered the relationship with?. I have told myself, that I need to show him the REAL me- the childish and care free side- Im not all life serious.. sometimes there just HAS to be a break from that side of things..x

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3 responses

mytravelaroundglobe

@sanjay91422 (2725)

• India

9 Jul 11

I think the best thing one can do is "be yourself", no matter what happens but try to be yourself. No body can be other than himself/herself because everyone is controlled by their mind and that is only their own mind. So don't get much confuse and do what ever your mind ask you to do and there is nothing else you can do because after all you will do what your mind ask you to do.

vivamir

@vivamir (671)

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9 Jul 11

Thanks for your response.. and from now on I will Sanjay- Im just getting tired of thinking of making others happy and not so much myself.. being a tiny bit selfish cant be a crime..

bouncybug

@bouncybug (613)

• South Africa

8 Jul 11

I definitely don't think that you should hide the real you from your partner. You won't be able to pretend that you are someone who you are not forever, and it will be a problem if you don't believe in the way you are acting. If your partner does not love you for the real you, then you are not with the right person - the right person would love you no matter what, and for all the things that you REALLY are, fun and childish and carefree! So in order to see if this relationship is real, you need to expose your true self.

vivamir

@vivamir (671)

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9 Jul 11

Thank you for your response..and I do believe that 'revealing' myself is the only way to determine the life span of this relationship.. its just been difficult to be myself and he seems to have the impression this is how I am..so acting differently would be like...'why you acting like that for'...and thats when hed have to accept me or not

ebuscat

@ebuscat (5935)

• Philippines

9 Jul 11

For me it is your conscience if you will like to do about it it's up to you take good care and most wonder who created you it is Jehovah God said your burden to him just called him in your prayers.

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