Itching to Say "I Miss You" After a Breakup

Philippines
July 13, 2011 12:56am CST
Its not me ok! For example, you broke up with your boyfriend. After some days, you miss him.. would you tell him that you do?
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6 responses
• India
17 Jul 11
I think it is a purely personal matter between the guy and the girl, how long they were together, why they broke etc. Thanks for sharing Have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘@Bhuwan@’. .
• United States
16 Jul 11
I don't think I would tell someone I broke up with that I miss them. See if I broke up with them, there had to have been a reason and I don't think I would be taken seriously if I informed the person that I missed them. So no I would do all possible from keeping myself in saying that I missed them.
@maean_19 (4656)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hahaha! That was nice! Well, days after the break up, I certainly miss him. That was I seem normal. However, I did not say it to him because I am more mad at him. We had a not-so-good break up that's why.
• United States
13 Jul 11
It would all depend on the situation and what the cause was for the break up, but if it was my fault and I was having second thoughts and missing him, I would definitely contront him and let him know. I have done that in the past on one occassion and vice versa and it turned out for the best, we are now married and have been together for 16 years with two beautiful children. So, yes I think honesty is sometimes (not always) that best solution.
• Philippines
15 Jul 11
This is exactly what happened to me just recently. I broke up with my Bf of 1 year to address my inner issues. We had that long distance kind of relationship. There are some aspects of the relationship that I can't deal with like lack of communication and stuffs. I deemed it rather pointless to have a relationship with someone who lives far away from me. Just the way that I feel at that time.. Anyway, I broke up with him. Days later (actually a month to be exact), I itch to tell him that I missed him and that I was sorry for breaking up and like.. explain that it's just a mistake. I stood my ground though-damn this pride of mine. Gratefully, my BF woe me once again. Who am I to resist? So I took him back. that period of breaking up was a miserable time for me.
@rambansal (574)
• India
13 Jul 11
There can be objective answer to this, it is a purely subjective matter, and every individual case has a different answer. Good that you provoke a discussion on such a delicate issue.