You Asked Me When Did I Realize I Love You.
By Ram Bansal
@rambansal (574)
India
July 31, 2011 4:29pm CST
Dear friend,
you remember asking me this question during our initial introductory days. I managed to reply instantly, but here is my well-considered reply.
I casually visited mylot for the first time, and saw your photograph. It looked impressive, saw in enlargement, when your spectacled eyes looked very promising to me. Practically, I realized at that point my liking for you. But this too is not the whole truth about us. It never turned out to be a love for lack of support from you.
When anybody enters an age of realizing necessity of a soul-mate, he/she develops an image of the soul-mate in all her dimensions, gradually in his mind. When he/she faces somebody resembling that image, he/she opts for liking. This is the fact of me and you.
Similarly, you too have some images of your mate, and have an absolute right to go by that. The love establishes only when imaginations of the two match with each other's reality, and that is often called 'Love at First Sight'. Indeed, it has a long history.
I wish you good-luck in finding a 'prince' of your imaginations, soon, as I found a right track for me, though it is extremely painful to both of us, as I am discussing elsewhere on this site.
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5 responses
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
3 Aug 11
hi ram,
it must hurt for a feeling expressed yet unanswered back the way it is wished.
i do agree for soul mates, they get attracted to each other even from afar.. even with just pictures.. or voices. they somehow get a connection somewhere and as they meet, it turns into something magical that is very difficult to explain.
finding one real love.. is a blessing.
have a nice day.
ann
@rambansal (574)
• India
3 Aug 11
Yes, my tigerlove, it was a case of that type, but all are not equally sensitive to such sentiments and working of the nature. Now I feel obliged to her, by being cold, she pushed me to the arms of a very beloved of mine. Now we are very deep in love. Thanks for your considered views, as always. You are a lovable friend indeed.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
2 Aug 11
hello Ram,
Again my best wishes to you for finding the love of your life :)
I read in one of your response to my comment that you don't believed in luck but destiny.
So,I want to say I am happy that destiny comes your way
Have a good day always
jaiho®
Have a good day always
jaiho®@rambansal (574)
• India
2 Aug 11
Thank you my dear 'J', destiny does not come, it is sought and brought. I got it with my efforts of many years.
People say, luck comes your way on its own, and they keep on sitting and waiting. Even they leave opportunities they find their way for their dependence on luck.
Thanks for your good wishes and continued interest as a friend.
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
1 Aug 11
Your words are lovely, rambansal. I am quite at a loss of how to respond because your words have been so impactive on me. Your answer to your friend's question is obviously from your heart and you have an intriguing way with words. They have moved me greatly.
@rambansal (574)
• India
1 Aug 11
Darling, I hate to call You by your chosen name here. Please change it for the sake of my love and regard to you. I have a writing project to share with you, if you like. Your published work will provide you with lifelong royalty. If interested, please keep in touch with me rambansal5(at)gmail(dot)com
@la_chique (1498)
•
31 Jul 11
How lovely. You have obviously put a lot of thought into this account of your feelings about your friend. They must be very lucky that you feel so highly of them.
@rambansal (574)
• India
1 Aug 11
My dear, feelings can be understood by sensitive persons only, and all are not that sensitive. You understand me through your sensitivity. Yes, I simply don't write for the cents I may get, but put my heart into my writings. My life is a great game for me, and writing it down is a big project, I am on.
Anyway, thanks for your interest and appreciation.
@Flash2 (347)
• United States
31 Jul 11
Yes,
This is an amazing account of a relationship that meant a great deal. I am moved by your emotional retelling of this event in your life. It is very heartwarming to hear this tale of love from this point of view. your perspective is very intriguing.
@rambansal (574)
• India
1 Aug 11
Yes friend, only a true lover can understand the pain of another lover. We seem to be in the same boat. Thanks for the encouragement of my writings. I intend to guide the world into redefining 'love'. People claim to love, but rarely know it.
