Mutual Perceptions change with change of Relationship
By Ram Bansal
@rambansal (574)
India
August 8, 2011 4:41am CST
Mutual perceptions are always subjected to the type of relationship they have with each other. If it changes, the perceptions too are bound to change.
I am in a newly found loving relationship with a person who has been my friend for a long time. I find now that she is not the person I used to know as a friend, but quite a different personality. For example, earlier her person was inspiring to me, but now she is the most beautiful person on earth, for me.
As friends, we used to listen to each other with a feeling of equality, but now she tries to dominate me, and I accept it with pleasure for my intense love to her. Many times, there used to be gaps in our seeing each other and we never missed, but now, if I don't interact with her many times a day, I get restless with a sense of missing her.
These changes in perceptions with change of relationship need be researched more thoroughly.
2 responses
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
This happens when one becomes judgmental without knowing the other person more deeply.
Human/s normally as the saying goes "first impressions lasts" - which I don't believed.
A lifetime sometimes is not enough to know our partner-and people do change.
So...never judge a person from what you see and what you hear.
Sometimes,people try/act rudely due to some reason that they themselves only knows.
have a good day
jaiho®
jaiho® @mensab (4200)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
psychologists have tried to decipher the intricacies of relationships. they too have endeavored to discover the changes and differences of relationships and their levels. i think your discussion can be a great contribution towards this end. our perception is fed by our senses. and love overwhelms these senses, making many of our actions irrational and insensible. i like this discussion.



