Water runs dry.. should we let things dry out before saying its enough?
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
Philippines
August 9, 2011 4:14am CST
So in relationships... do you think most people still stay in it without realizing that the "water" has run dry hence when they realize they have a problem its already a case they can't resolved, an issue left un said, hence it is impossible to even be opened up for discussion and reconciliation.
I just thought we stay in relationships and then one day there's nothing left, no feelings, not even concern left for the other person and thus it marks the end of the relationship...
Do you think this is always the case for most relationships that have failed (no third party) involved.
Thanks~
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3 responses
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Yes, I think y0u are correct. Some relationships are left without showing each other love every single day. Reasons are, both are too busy with each others lives that they forget that they too have to have a life where only the two of them live. I meant to say here that they should find time for each other despite the busy schedule. They forget that they should not let the love fall into something they both will no longer feel. Communication is really very important.
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@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
Hi there gaiza, probably the downfall of our relationship was that we never had proper time anymore. we meet once a week but when we do, he is late and we are left to watching a movie then going home. it was such a routine that i myself has gotten bored too. =(
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
9 Aug 11
Hi ch!
You see in some of the cases it could be correct the concerned parties do not realize till a long period that the water has run dry. If a relationship fails, both the parties should take the blame because they did not sort out their differences, when differences started creeping in and they let it become a major issue, which resulted in break in relationship. Warmth in a relationship and flame of love and passion should always be kept alive, if a relationship has to nurture.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
I guess that is true. I mean I felt that there were issues, but we probably thought that it is not happening so we just let it go as if we had a perfect relationship. Maybe it was my fault that I did not insist on talking about it, I did not want to push him to open up if he can't; And he has no right to blame me for not wanting to talk as well because I found myself just tired of saving the relationship and of thinking what else can be done... Its no one man team so it crumbled because i cannot hold it together by myself.
@donsky14 (5990)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
I think communication is really important in a relationship...so that we won't end up having the "water run dried" ... we need to be open to our partner so that they would be aware of how you feel, and hence you could fix and balance the relationship. 
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@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
hi donsky! =) thank you for your response, and also to you gavrilovich.
I guess communication is important, but then it often has not helped as much... when the person you try to communicate with is not even half listening to you even if you try to talk to them. I have had this with men who will pretend to listen but is not getting what you were trying to say. =(
