understanding People..

United States
August 13, 2011 11:30pm CST
When you are trying to understand people I mean how do you or do you just make your own assumption of people and what you think of them, some people are who they are and you can read game right off a persons face you don't need to know them for along time, once you have been around something your whole life than you can smell it right off a person, people try to run game on you but its like you know it I just don't understand how some people can use you after you have been ther efor them but when you look at it you can understand that being that you are so nice people are so quick to say that you would forgive them for what they have done to you. What do you guys think?
3 responses
greenline
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
21 Aug 11
People are different from one another, of course, depending on the age, culture, education, professional background, religion, and so on. And, the outlooks can be different. So, when we are amidst certain situations, we have to understand it from the perspective of the other person(s). It may be difficult to understand some times, but one has to be fair as best one can.
eynjel_1988
@eynjel_1988 (330)
• Philippines
14 Aug 11
We cannot really understand people unless we know them or we have a chance to talk with them. All of us have our own uniqueness so definitely, we don't have the right of judging someone by just looking their physical appearance.
francesca5
@francesca5 (1344)
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14 Aug 11
understand people? thats a difficult thing. it sounds like you may have encountered a few difficult people, walking2010, though you are not alone in that. the only thing i know is that some people play games, and some people are open, honest and trustworthy. and its working out who you can trust and who you can't. i can't claim to be an expert on how to tell the difference. because manipulative people are manipulative, and so it takes a while to work it out. but remember, if you have a bad experience, that they are the ones with the problem, not you.