What will you do if you Husband still dating his exgirlfriend?
By zhawee
@zhawee (873)
Philippines
6 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
14 Aug 11
Oh yes anger to say the least. I am a very loyal person to my partner so I expect to be respected. What I would do is that he would no longer be my partner if I was to find out he was dating someone while being with me. I definitely would have to let go as I expect to be treated as number one always, just like I treat my partner as my one and only.
I have experienced this before and this while I was married. I was naive in the past into believing my ex-husband would change, but nope no change just got worse. I am very clear with any partner that I expect to be respected with the same respect I give to him. It is so unfair and often wonder why a person must have two and not let go of one before getting involved with another.
I don't threaten a partner I just let it be known that is not something I can tolerate. It is never a good feeling to be in this type of situation. 

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@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
14 Sep 11
Yes it surely was difficult to deal with, but life makes us stronger and we somehow make it through.
Thank you for the BR! 

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@goggles213 (735)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
I've never done this thing to my partner because I think this is breaking the trust that my partner has given me. Sure I am friends with my ex but I never talk to her anymore as a sign of respect for my wife. If I were to put my shoes on the one that's affected, I'd be really angry.
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
11 Sep 11
Hi, zhawee. If this is true, then I will disconnect all ties that I have with him. Me and him would be through for good. I would not sit and fight about this matter, I will just end everything that I have with him, because he is just not worth me crying and stressing myself over.

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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
11 Sep 11
Hi, zhawee. If this is true, then I will disconnect all ties that I have with him. Me and him would be through for good. I would not sit and fight about this matter, I will just end everything that I have with him, because he is just not worth me crying and stressing myself over.

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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
11 Sep 11
Really, your husband had married you, and he shouldn't do such horrible things to hurt you though. That makes him 2 - timer, don't you think? He should make it clear whether he still want to stay in this marriage, or he simply wants a mistress behind your back. What he done just simply wrong.
@haopee (493)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
That sucks and I would get mad as well... pissed off even. I might break the window of his car or his favorite toy.
However, sometimes we assume the worst especially when we eye them with a past flame.
But even I would not do that and I'm not yet married. It's always a golden rule to put this question in your mind: "Would it hurt my partner if I do it?"
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