What will you do if you Husband still dating his exgirlfriend?

@zhawee (873)
Philippines
August 14, 2011 5:52pm CST
Many of us had experienced that, we expected that is past so everyone can forget it. what if your discover and investigate that your husband still dating his ex-girlfriend. First you did not know you what to do at that time, maybe you get anger.
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• United States
14 Aug 11
Oh yes anger to say the least. I am a very loyal person to my partner so I expect to be respected. What I would do is that he would no longer be my partner if I was to find out he was dating someone while being with me. I definitely would have to let go as I expect to be treated as number one always, just like I treat my partner as my one and only. I have experienced this before and this while I was married. I was naive in the past into believing my ex-husband would change, but nope no change just got worse. I am very clear with any partner that I expect to be respected with the same respect I give to him. It is so unfair and often wonder why a person must have two and not let go of one before getting involved with another. I don't threaten a partner I just let it be known that is not something I can tolerate. It is never a good feeling to be in this type of situation.
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@zhawee (873)
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
yes sometimes life its so unfair. when you respect to others but other did not give you respect, they abusing your kindness. your story its really sad to me. Also respect its hardly find now a day
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• United States
14 Sep 11
Yes it surely was difficult to deal with, but life makes us stronger and we somehow make it through. Thank you for the BR!
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• Philippines
15 Aug 11
I've never done this thing to my partner because I think this is breaking the trust that my partner has given me. Sure I am friends with my ex but I never talk to her anymore as a sign of respect for my wife. If I were to put my shoes on the one that's affected, I'd be really angry.
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@zhawee (873)
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
you are right. if you don`t want to hurt you, so dont hurt somebody, because i believe in karma. its really fast and return back.
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
11 Sep 11
Hi, zhawee. If this is true, then I will disconnect all ties that I have with him. Me and him would be through for good. I would not sit and fight about this matter, I will just end everything that I have with him, because he is just not worth me crying and stressing myself over.
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
11 Sep 11
Hi, zhawee. If this is true, then I will disconnect all ties that I have with him. Me and him would be through for good. I would not sit and fight about this matter, I will just end everything that I have with him, because he is just not worth me crying and stressing myself over.
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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
11 Sep 11
Really, your husband had married you, and he shouldn't do such horrible things to hurt you though. That makes him 2 - timer, don't you think? He should make it clear whether he still want to stay in this marriage, or he simply wants a mistress behind your back. What he done just simply wrong.
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@haopee (493)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
That sucks and I would get mad as well... pissed off even. I might break the window of his car or his favorite toy. However, sometimes we assume the worst especially when we eye them with a past flame. But even I would not do that and I'm not yet married. It's always a golden rule to put this question in your mind: "Would it hurt my partner if I do it?"
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