What do you do if your boyfriend ex girlfriend hate you?

First... if I can't trust your boyfriend around a former lover, then I'm going dump his butt off at the next corner and keep on going!! If a former girlfriend becomes too much of an interference but my boyfriend sees through rose colored glasses, I'm going to address him about it. If it's still a problem down the road, to hell with him. As for the former girlfriend, I am going to explain at first, politely, that her advances are unwelcomed. And if she continues... then, really, I'm not very sure. I don't deal well with other females at all and honestly, I'm more likely to talk through my fist the second time if my first attempts at being nice are tossed back in my face. But really, if he thinks that she's STILL *THAT* cool, he just needs to pack up and get back with her and stop messing with other people's minds and lives while he figures out what he really wants.

Let's deal the issue one by one. If my boyfriend's ex girlfriend hates me and she is trying to get my bf back. What would I do? I would certainly ask my bf if he has still feelings for the ex. If he says, 'yes", then I would let him go as I don't want to be the "love on the rebound" girlfriend. If he says, "No", I would ask him to stay away from his ex as it is not proper that he is keeping in touch with her especially when the ex hates me and she's trying to get back my bf. That only shows she hasn't moved on yet. However, I believe that ex-lovers should be good friends, but if the ex-girl shows signs of bitterness, jealousy, envy and hate towards me, that is not good. But, if the situation is my bf enjoys talking with the ex-gf despite the fact that he knows that his ex hates me and doesn't do ways to stop, then I think I will dump my bf and let them be. I know that it is good seeing them good friends, yet it is different when he doesn't care what I feel. I am not a jealous type, though I am not that stupid either.

If she hates me then I DON'T CARE, i hate her as_ too! And i will not allow my boyfriend to talk to his ex that's NO no. If still he talk to his ex then he must choose between me and the ex. Better end the relationship than being dumped at the back..