Pleasure of Togetherness
By Ram Bansal
@rambansal (574)
India
August 15, 2011 1:57am CST
Company of a loved one always provide pleasure. Here is my view on how to take such a pleasure very deep in you.
Dynamic moments of pleasure are thrilling yet only skin deep, fade away within minutes of the experience. Taking this pleasure deep in you is through remaining in a standstill state for a duration as long as is feasible for the company. Any posture, any place, any soft feeling will do provided it involves a physical touch and is full of pleasure.
Dynamism is desired, in such a state, in the beginning, just hold it, contain it, let it not flare up. Soon, it gets to melting state slowing inside the two bodies, deeper and deeper as the time passes. Deeper goes the flow, longer remains the memory of that pleasureful moment. Patience is the key to this.
5 responses
@umabharti (3972)
• India
15 Aug 11
then why does the company of the same person (loved one) will not give pleasure after marriage.Though it has the same patience and same love and what ever u had said within the discussion is there after marriae also however why doesnt it be the same as it was before when they were lovers.what comes new ? in between them.which was not in the past.Or what do their future gives them that they do such in the present.
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@rambansal (574)
• India
15 Aug 11
Uma dear, for many, marriage changes the perception. The love is not cultivated any more but taken for granted and available without cultivation. This is the gravest mistake of the relationship. I have dealt with this issue elsewhere, which you may find at -
http://socyberty.com/sexuality/avoid-being-married-strangers/
At personal level, this is a sensitive issue, and I won't like to comment at that level. However, I understand the pain, very well.
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@umabharti (3972)
• India
16 Aug 11
"what is a piece of paper " is it a marriage certificate or a divorce?
Yes people do stop trying because of somethings and they do adjust with the situations as u said may be that is why they dont feel it unsatisfied .This happens not only in married life ,in every thing we do it happens and at every stage of life this is necessary to try something new to keep the old one new,to make a change and make ourselves satisfied and happy.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
16 Aug 11
A piece of paper shouldn't change how you feel... marriage should only heighten the experience, not detract from it. Anyone who says marriage detracts from pleasure isn't doing it right then... put the same effort into pleasure seeking and you will find the same results as before marriage. That's the trouble.. when people get married they quit trying and just take advantage of the situation because they are married and don't have to try anymore. Sad really.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
hello ram,
I prefer the happiness of togetherness than pleasure.
Happiness is greater than pleasure...
pleasure doesn't stays long..but happiness always remain and gives contentment.
have a good day 
jaiho®
jaiho® @rambansal (574)
• India
15 Aug 11
Pleasure-extended long enough is happiness. Of course, happiness has many other sources to come from. Here the topic is limited to dynamics and statics of pleasure of togetherness.
I fully agree with you.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
i like this discussion. we always take for granted the pleasure of togetherness. how it came about, how it is maintained, and how it is lost? it is true that some of the pleasures are only skin-deep, and some are really profoundly deep that touch our senses and inner selves. i like reading theories that provide explanations of things that happen to us. thank you.
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Aug 11
Just like downloading feelings from your loved one and uploading what you have to your lover? Love is pleasure when the love-hearts understand each other and feel shy but loving to one another.. when the mind plays key role in running through the obstacles found in every relationship, as 'caring' being the string of communication.
