Always end up a wrong decision in my life..

Philippines
August 29, 2011 11:34am CST
I really dont know how to make decisions now. As everytime I did a decision, I always end up in a wrong one. As I am always end up asking myself why this is happening to me. Just like what I did three months ago. That, I have chose to be with my family and start up my own business but it seems like my presence here was not appreciated. As my situation everyday brings me to a hopeless vision. As I lived everyday I am blaming myself. As I wake up everyday, I am saying to myself, if only I could turn back the time. I will go back to the place where I have been three months ago. And there will I live all by myself.
8 responses
@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
29 Aug 11
There comes a point in your life when you just need to be by yourself and on your own. To do for yourself and find who you are. You are craving that. When you make your decisions based on others wants, you end up shorting yourself majorly in the end. When the opportunity comes again for you to move out and move on then grab it this time. Don't dwell on your decision. Learn from it and try to make the best of things.
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
Good day Natnickeep, That is what I am trying to do, learning from what I am encountering now a days and making the best of everything. Although it is indeed hard and difficult.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
7 Feb 12
We can never turn back time so the best thing for us to do is learn from the wrong decisions we've made and apply those to our present situation. Our mistakes from the past actually help us improve the way we are today.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
5 Feb 12
hi, for me having a wrong or mistake decision in life is just a normal because we are only human which is not a perfect and also have weaknesses,sometimes we thought that our decision is right but to other people would not be.sometimes i had wrong decision too in my life but all i need to do is to face it.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
5 Feb 12
having a wrong decision is normal to us but make sure you will learn from it.perhaps you will regret it but later on you will realize it and stop blaming your self you are just only a human we are not perfect.its a lesson for so you must accept it and never make a decision if you cant do it my your own may be others can help you. cheer up
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
30 Aug 11
some times things happen for a reason and every now and then life throws us a tough patch it will get better just think about what what you want and how to become happy agin also prayer really helps me (i don't know your spiritual status) but i hope you find happines
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
There are two paths in life. The right and the wrong one. Sometimes, we would always end up with the wrong one. That's because we are just human and we are not perfect. We are not mind master and we can't see future ahead of us. We really can't tell what will happen next. Me too have made wrong decision in my life. What matter is now and the future. I'm trying to go to the right path of life and I should start that by saving money.
@lazybug (273)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
There are no mistakes only lessons to be learned; this line comes from a song and this is so true. Airasheila, you are being hard on yourself because you are dwelling on the negative effects of the circumstances in your life. Evaluate how you make decisions; what are you considering and why are you considering it and when you have thoroughly sort it out in your mind then let your heart validate your decision. You are the one who made that decision, no one else did it for you therefore acknowledge, reflect, accept the decision you made cause no one can turn back time even Albert Einstein stated that time travelling is not possible. Forgive yourself for making wrong choices and trust yourself to move on by being honest on yourself and to your family and everyone who surrounds you. Life is full of test and in order for you to be strong enough to face it you need the assistance of your friends and family and trust in God. Isolation do give us individual independence however no man is an island. Always remember that in every challenge/obstacle in life lies a blessing. Be and stay POSITIVE.
@hafiz008 (450)
• India
29 Aug 11
Every one in the world is not perfect. All you have to do believe in yourself that is self confidence. Please don't blame yourself. It will adversely effect yourself.I have met lot of people that they can do anything, but actually they can`t but they will have confidence to do that.The greatest knowledge that a man can get is from Knowledge. For example My father is an Industrialist. His educational qualification on 9th class but his manager is a MBA. It is because he had failed many times but he have the confidence that he will be success and work for it.Let the anyone tell anything about you don't bother about it. Good luck