do you ever worry that your husband may be flirting with other women at work?
By birdie816
@birdie816 (1276)
United States
September 1, 2011 7:53pm CST
or even if other women are flirting with him....what do you do? do you ask hhim or do you secretly look for proof?...or something else?
5 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
2 Sep 11
Thankfully I live with someone I do not have to worry about issues as this. I trust him completely and to date he has not given me a reason to think otherwise. We have such great communication that I know he would tell me if he had someone flirt with him. Actually I think it would be a really funny discussion, as we do talk freely about our lives.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
3 Sep 11
well i hope your relationship stays this open and you stay close becasue once communication is messed up, there is no relationship
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
5 Sep 11
i'm just glad that you and your husband have communication because i cannot honestly say the same about mine
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
4 Sep 11
I was married once before and so was he to someone else. We both want the same things out of life and hope to be this way for a very long time. 
In fact one of the first things we discussed prior to moving in was that communication was very important to the both of us.
In fact one of the first things we discussed prior to moving in was that communication was very important to the both of us.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
I've been into this situation long ago.
I am not a jealous type and I am too confident that my hubby will never cheat me,but I was wrong.
Till the time comes that he did cheated on me and after few forgiving and patching up things...i gave up and let him go his way.
have a good day 
jaiho®
jaiho®@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
3 Sep 11
yeah i think it is really selfish for married couples with kids to divorce because they are basically ruining the child's childhood
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
2 Sep 11
that's horrible. i am sorry you had to go through that. i hope you find somebody else (if you want somebody else...) that will love you because i am sure you are a great person for him to have married you in the first place
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
2 Sep 11
My sister's ex-husband was said to have frequent extramarital affairs. One of the gals he went out with happened to be my sister's good friend. If only men learn to be more responsible, there would be fewer marital problems and divorces. Ultimately, it's the children who suffer the most when parents have marital issues or end up getting divorced. I have once heard someone (a guy) say that the best gift a father could give to his children is by loving his wife. I absolutely agree with this statement!
@GardenGerty (169449)
• United States
2 Sep 11
He would tell me when it happened. Right now we do not work, so that is not really an issue. He and I are mature enough and old enough to be honest about things like that. Besides, we are comfortable just being with each other.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
3 Sep 11
wow i hope your marriage stays this open and honest forever. and i hope that me and my husband can get to that level of trust
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
2 Sep 11
Men generally have the tendency to stray. I am not trying to be judgmental here; I have come across too many men who cheat on their wives or girlfriends, and I have also heard such stories. It's kind of scary to get married. Anyway, I think a woman who plans to get married must be psychologically prepared that such thngs could happen. Maybe I am just paranoid but how can I not be when I have personally come across so many men who cheat! So, to me, the safest bet is to remain single.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
2 Sep 11
hm...well as far as i know my husband has no desire to cheat. he goes out of his way to make it known. he will literally announce in a public place that he thinks all women but me are ugly as well as go up to them and tell them they are ugly individually. it's actually pretty funny lol...he also makes sure to introduce me to everyone as his wife. if he is a cheater then he at least went through alot to hide it
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
2 Sep 11
It's said that a woman's gut feeling is the most accurate. (I agree!) So trust in your own gut feeling and believe that your husband has not strayed.
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
2 Sep 11
I'm not married but I was worried about my ex flirting through his work before because one time we were talking through webcam and he thought my camera volume was off but I heard him call another woman from work "babe" when I confronted him about it he said he never said that which I didn't believe him. I've also looked for proof and found it is what lead us to the breakup, he had a facebook friend that didn't seem like a friend at all because of one of her comments to my ex's pic she wrote something about him being her baby so I contacted her and she told m they ere dating. Always have your guard up in a relationship guys these days can not keep one woman.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
2 Sep 11
well that is terrible that he did that to you. i hope that the relationship at least wasn't too serious because i am sure that must have been devastating to find out
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
3 Sep 11
i suppose that makes sense because he will have alot more money to support more than one woman (or just date her or whatever)
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
2 Sep 11
Just a sudden thought...I think the more successful a man is, the more likely he will cheat or have extramarital affairs. This is at least true from what I have in newspapers.
