The Hidden Secret of A Failing Marriage and Cheating Husbands

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It is not a surprise that nowdays marriages don't last for long and for those who are able to keep it together for atleast more than 10 years are seen as role models in this difficult journey of marriage. Let us ask ourselves, what does a good marriage entails. To most people a good marriage entails; commitment, faithfullness availability, love, finance among others but we usually forget the most important role when we come to marriage which is knowing our responsibilities as a man and as a woman. The today's world woman is a very busy woman with so much commitment in her work and ofcourse her friends, that the earliest you can expect her to be in the house is around 9:00pm and in other cases, she has some followup meeting to do that she never turn up until the following day. When the today's woman comes home, she is very tired and spend most of her time sleeping waiting for the next day scedule. This is one of the area that today's woman fail, it is true that the economic status are not getting better as days goes by but we need flexibility in our scedule. For that busy woman with children back at home, she expects the nanny to take the role of the mother and look after her children as well as the husband. When the husband comes from work, the first person who welcomes him home is a smiling nanny and attend typically to his basic needs as the wife is busy doing her "work". To me, this is where we fail as women. God gave us children and husbands to be able to care for them but not to leave them under the care of nannies. As times goes by, the affection that the husband gets from nanny make him realize that even though he got married to his wife, the person taking care of him and his children is no longer his wife but the nanny and sooner he decides to switch. To us women, we are left asking what happened to our marriage but sincerely you never ask where did I fail in this marriage. Let us be real and take our responsibilities seriously. Try to spend quality time with your family and make a flexible schedule in consideration of your family.