Feeling A Sense of Missing

@srjac0902 (1169)
Italy
January 4, 2012 11:46am CST
Human wants are never limited. Some people are not lucky enough to get everything they want. Some may be greatly successful in finding for themselves a beloved husband, caring relatives, neighbors and friends. A woman gains great reputation when she is loved and cared for by her husband. The children to watch a presence of mutual loving bond and devotion between the parents and they learn to respect the parents. Some people might have got very caring and loving parents who gave everything for the safety of the daughter or the son. But the life gets shattered after marriage or after establishing a relationship with the partner. Some may get love from the parents as well as from the partners and children but they never succeed in the society. Some have been destroyed by the premature death of the partner or the children. Some may get everything and yet they mis something in life. They cannot establish a healthy relationship with the partner and the children. They may receive so much love from them yet some feel something is missing in life and they never reciprocate that love to their beloved. Some may end up with mutism and withdrawal. They live mechanically and perform all activities mechanically yet they are dead in their heart. This may be a psychological trauma. As this situation advances these affected people may seek some friendship outside home and an extra marital relationship may develope. They bay betray their partners and again feel sick of conscience prick Eventually they may reach to a conclusion to give divorce. For what reason is this divorce? In reality nothing was lacking in life. The marriage had taken place with mutual attraction and consent. The middle age crisis can fool man drastically.The family members must watch over their members. If eachone receives attention and care right from the beginning may be a future evil can be avoided. Many times we do not care for the feelings of the person who shares life.
1 response
@umabharti (3972)
• India
4 Jan 12
Its nice to read all the different aspects of a relation ship between couples.Life is different to every one.We can not predict the future .We can not say that this relationship which we are making can be a good one for all.Some times only couples feel hapiness some times others feel due to the couples marriage ,i meant to say parents on both ends and relations. Some do not argue for anything just try to adjust with what they get.Some try to come out of the un bearable relation and lead a better life which they want.Some relations be good in the second attempt.Some can not adjust with the married life so its good to take divorce and live the life with some one else or alone,its hard to lead a life alone,so its good to choose a best life partner as the life is not short. Others be this day but a life partner is forever,so choosing such a partner one should take a proper care and decide whom to marry and whom to make their lifepartner.Its hard for anyone to decide at the beginning only,as the time goes on one will know better of the life partner . Some times couples can not adjust,they just cannot.So at that time its hard for them to manage in one home.Its good to have peace of mind being away from each other.If there are kids then again its a problem.As they have to think for them. So better not make mistake at any time,as the result will be very bad.Any relationship can not be over written again or erased so easily.