Only confidence when was at home
By Polang
@tkonlinevn (6427)
Vietnam
January 7, 2012 1:38am CST
I know a few people only can be confident when they are at home. When they go out, they seem to turn into another person.
When at home, they are active. They talk funny, story homes, children, work etc. .. But when they go out or to the homes of others, they seem to lose all confidence. They are usually very quiet and eager to leave early.
This character made ??others feel uncomfortable when they are present. And it is not good for themselves.
Do you think so?
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2 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
People have different characters. It doesn't mean that when they go out and they are not so active and talkative outside the house means they lose their confidence. Some are just shy that is why they feel a bit uncomfortable. We cannot expect all people to be really active, if that is their personality. I am one of these kind of people. I don't lose my confidence, I am just naturally shy. But being shy won't mean I can't talk to people outside.
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
9 Jan 12
I do not want to talk about those who are shy. Shy and less confident little different also through their attitudes and their expression.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
I see that some people like you are a little prejudice. Maybe it's time you be mature with different qualities of people.
I do respect your views on it. Maybe you have met a lot of shy people with different personalities.
With your words, I do not want to talk about those who are shy and my words... I am just naturally shy I think I should just avoid you because I fall under those categories you didn't want to communicate with.
Nice day!
I do respect your views on it. Maybe you have met a lot of shy people with different personalities.
With your words, I do not want to talk about those who are shy and my words... I am just naturally shy I think I should just avoid you because I fall under those categories you didn't want to communicate with.
Nice day!@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
Oh I read your response wrongly. I thought you do not want to talk WITH shy people. So, you mean you are not talking about people with shy characters.
But that is one character that I was telling you. The reason that I talked about people being shy is because it is one of the character those people you are describing above has. I am talking about from my own experience. I am active, talkative, confident at home. But when I go out I am behave. I only become active, talkative and confident whenever I needed to. At work maybe. But in front of other people and at school before I am usually mistaken as the quiet one. Because I don't talk much and not so active.
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
7 Jan 12
I know a lot of people can only be socialable in heir own home when they visit other peoples homes they are like fish out of water, some of my friends are like that needless to say I prefer to visit them, I love to go visiting.
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
9 Jan 12
Visiting that persons is maybe the best method. Thank you for your idea. I never think about this.




