There are people who try to destroy you through gossiping lie..

People have different chracters/traits. We cannot avoid people who loves to gossip specially when we are working one company. We need to be cautious and try to choose the right people to trust. I have met such kind of people and often I end up choosing and trusting the right ones. I still have a lot to learn how to assess people's personality to really choose the ones that I should trust. Gossipers often tries to get people's trust by making you feel comfortable when you are with them.

Gossip that tears others down is bad. It does such a great amount of damage that can't be undone. Some people don't realize how harmful it is while others just don't care. Which is truly sad. We should avoid gossiping. And when we hear others start to gossip we should try to change the subject or leave. Because we don't want others to think that what they are saying is ok or that we agree with it.

Yes, there are many kind of people around us, and we can not avoid someone do gossiping lie about us. For me, better to ignore some bad issues, and better to avoid friends who like to do gossips. This is our life, we who know exactly what happens with us, so why we must hear something (especially bad things) like that.

People who gossip and listen to gossip waste time. As humans, we are bound to have perfections and imperfections in different aspects of our lives. We are capable of erring that may elicit gossip. More often than not, the gossip becomes exaggerated and untrue. The problem with gossip is that it ruins reputation and relationships. Like you, I avoid gossip and turn my attention to productive things like making new friends and learning new skills.

Hello befrindwithme26 This is life and there are different people of different nature some are good for us but bad for others and some are bad for us good for others. I also don't like people who gossip about me and make stories about me but i can't do anything for them as i don't have control on them so i better ignore them and try to avoid talking to them that's the only way i can get rid of them.In person i don't do that i don't gossip much.

People who gossips are so stupid and dumb people for me. Sorry to say that, but i just despise gossiping! Sometimes friendship will end just because of gossip, and sometimes, relationship could end too because of gossip and it also does with family. I myself don't gossip around people lives, i don't care about them, i mean i care a friend, neighbor or something, but making stories just to hurt people or put someone down is what i don't do. Yes you are right, i hope that people will realize that gossip is harmful.

i cant understand what can they get when they do things like this. In the office, its normal.. When i was a newbie in my career, i thought it no longer exist since its where professionals are but its actually nastier and worse instead. People talk about other people's lives, their boyfriends who cheated, other's performance when its better than the other.. I mean youre there to work, not to destroy or talk about personal stuff..

gossip is everywhere it became habits of all people so its up to you if you get affected or not, just ignore the people who make gossip about you and don't let them affect you or else you will end up fighting with them

I've been in that situation also. I just don't listen to them. I just want to let them think what they wanted to.In fact they just knew me by name, not my real story.