Will you tell your secret to your friends?

well there is so many people out there that you can not trust. first when you tell someone a secret about you. you got to know what kind of person they are .if you know that they don't like to gossip then they are probably a good friend you can trust and tell your secrets to. but if i had a friend and i told her my secrets and she goes telling everyone then i would just stop talking to her.

I think there is nothing you can do but to put the blame to your self if the secret revealed and spread by you. I also feel the same. I can't keep a secret because i also feel uncomfortable or irritated so i also tell to them the secret that i know that's why to avoid my self from telling secrets to other. I also avoid hearing secrets of other people.

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I don't trust anyone anymore so I would never tell anyone a secret unless it wasn't really a secret anyway. I know people talk too much and do not think about how it will affect other people. I would not tell anyone my personal things. I have been hurt too many times by people I thought I could trust and quickly found out I could not. I am tired of people and their games and lies!

hi dandan07, for me, i will also tell my secret to my friend, but i only tell those can really keep the secret for me. if i found that the secret i told had been spread out after a certain moment, i am sure that i will never tell secret to the friend anymore, and i will keep a distance with he or she since he or she trying to betray me.

Hi dandan07,I don't have any secret because i want to have peace in my heart.Any way,if it happens to me i won't never tell it to my friend. As what Ive seen to others it is the most causes of misunderstanding and it will not be a secret forever.

It depends on what kind of secrets you do have. As for me, I won't and never will share one of my Deepest Darkest Secret. That secret of mine is will be buried into my grave. I do have a lots of secret, most of them are the unusual one.

My question is, if you know your secret will spread, why do you keep telling your friend? You know your friend cannot be trusted, why do you still believe in him? I have ever told one of my close friend who works in the same place with me that one of our work-mate is someone who likes gossiping. I asked her to make up a story and 5 minutes later another friend was interrogating my friend. Cool isn't it? ;) My close friend couldn't say anything but just shaking her head as she couldn't believe how "leaky" this person is. :D Now she avoids talking much to this another friend. What if you try something to test your friends' loyalty? I don't like doing this actually, but sometimes we have to. :( Try to make up a story, a big one. Tell it to your friends but ask them (all of them) not to tell anyone. You'll see who's really keeping your secret. ;)