Secrets

@didi13 (2926)
Romania
May 4, 2012 10:29am CST
I can not to suffer secrets. They hit me, poisoning my heart, disturb my sleep. Makes me feel guilty for it not my fault they falsely charge me with a burden that does not deserve and do not want. But life always brings about events from which remain, instead of scars, secret. I, however, than those living near, do not want to hide anything that I could burden. I admit mistakes and try to fix them. I confess weaknesses or temptations and apologize for them, trying to make something good instead. And to get more rarely troubled confessional situation, I try to tell the truth and only truth. But I do not know if you can live a full transparency, total. I wonder if you can life without any hiding places. Or, in fact, the secrets of life is a compelling need everyone who keeps a remnant of independence even without all its existing obligations? Who does not bear any mystery in the heart, to lift the stone before the others ...
3 responses
@megamatt (14290)
• United States
7 May 12
We may all find ourselves rather in the position to have secrets at times but it is something that is going to burn us on the inside. It is really hard to keep such matters close and obviously should we tell people, then it is no longer a secret. If you need to state the words "don't tell anyone I told you this but..." then you're just opening up the flood gates. There are many mysteries within many people, many people who take things to the grave, because they do not want them known. They fear the consequences, no matter how absurd this fear might be. There are times where life just tends to really fall right off of the rails. Secrets will burn us up and tear us right apart if we are not careful but some will maintain their silence until the bitter end and at times, the end is bitter.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
5 May 12
Until I was all okay and healthy, I believed in secrets. But now that I have been ill, and realized that there is no value of keeping anything secret and confined to me, I have become open and now, it is anything you ask, If I know, I will tell you. Though there are times when people tell me that please dont let this thing out, and I do respect that. Those are the ones that stay as secrets with me, I dont tell them to anyone. But for anything that I have, I have no secrets.
@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
4 May 12
I think that,no matter how open we pretend we are and how much we want to share our life experience with the people we know,there's always room for some secrets that we choose to keep because we are sometimes afraid of the consequences of revealing them even to the dearest ones;eventually when we feel that it's time to say everything to someone we are sure we can trust we will disclose our deepest secrets to that person and thus lift a big burden off our hearts,but until we decide to do that we must think carefully and try to be cautious,and,of course,let's keep those secrets hidden from strangers until we get to know them well and be sure we can trust them.