Which One Are We Supposed To Belive?

I believe those events that are happening right now - bad or good events are created neutral. We are the ones that give meaning, we perceived it as it happen. We see a positive day during a rainy day or a depressing day during a vacation day. Therefore, I believe that life is neutral, instead of looking at it as unfair. Now, I'm inclined to believe that - Life is what we make it. Our choices will make or break our life. It is by wisdom and prayer that help us to choose the better path.

Maybe its not really contradictory and its probably good to believe both because we all know if we dont work hard to get what we want,we would not be satisfied which would definitely make us think that life isn't fair. The only way we might not feel that life isn't fair is if we make something good out of it.

life is not fair, because God had been created the conditions of injustice that we are as human beings can share and mutual help each others. Life is what you make, because all your activities in this life will come back to yourself. Remember, life is worship. When you do good then the reward for yourself, when you do damage then the damage for yourself, too. So, believe it or not, yourself which determines which one supposed to believe in this life

I guess they are both truths, just their wording is really extreme (because I guess those people who think in a really extreme way worded them)... because I think we should accept that we can't always get what we want (as we know from Rolling Stones :D), but at the same time, if you don't do anything for your life and your own happiness, nothing's gonna improve... and this way how I worded it, they are less contradictory I guess, because they not that harshly worded.

Life is what you make it. Yes, we know that Life isn't fair, maybe because you were born to lack everything or born in poverty and other people were born in a silver spoon. Maybe there are some reason behind it that we forgot to understand and analyze. Example, maybe I was poor because my parents are also poor which was also caused by not working and finding a good job. Maybe they did not do what it takes to have a better life than what they have now. Some reflections of this one in our society were the couples who keep in giving birth without thinking the future of their offspring. So therefore, Life is what a person makes it in order to be fair in life.