My city full of so called ‘she males’
@Professor2010 (20156)
India
May 25, 2012 4:29am CST
[b]Yes they have come to dance in the marriage procession of God Shiva with Goddesses Parvati. The festival is today, it is called Sital Sasti.
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Here people call them as ‘hingdaa’ , they are in fact male but dresses as female, the voice is like female, the hand movements, walking etc is feminine.
They are not she male in the true sense of the word, they don’t have well developed breasts like she males (I had seen some while in Davao of Philippines); but here they wear padded bra and women dresses , wear heavy makeup to look women .
[b]Most of them come from Titilagarh, a place in Orissa, of my state; they work as cook and food servers in hotels, snack shops. Though they look as women, as I said they are male; I know because I was serving in the college there for 12 years.
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[b]They have come here to dance, because they believe they are cursed, hence leading this kind of life; by dancing in the procession, they will be blessed by God Shiva and in the next birth will be born as normal human being.
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[b]Do you have such person in your country, place; have you ever seen or talked to one?
Any festival where such persons dance to get rid of curse?
Please share your experience and comment on this.
Thanks in advance.[/b]
Prof.Dr. B.Saraf. PhD
25th May 2012.
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25th May 2012.
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9 responses
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
27 May 12
we dont have such dancing. it is probably like mardigras. but surely it is some fun to watch.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
27 May 12
you really will not believe how big your eyes opened when i told you. you really thought she was a girl.
it was so much fun professor.
hey, i will miss you. am sure you will not be online for several days. but am looking forward to seeing you online on the third night ok? take care!!
ann
it was so much fun professor.
hey, i will miss you. am sure you will not be online for several days. but am looking forward to seeing you online on the third night ok? take care!!
ann
@Professor2010 (20156)
• India
27 May 12
Sweety
You remember, you, me and Jose went to Laxmi store near your house, the sales lady was cute, looked 100% female, you later told me she was a sea male
You remember, you, me and Jose went to Laxmi store near your house, the sales lady was cute, looked 100% female, you later told me she was a sea male
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
25 May 12
We have a lot of them here in our country professor. As you have said, you have seen some in Davao.
We call them gays, because they are indeed persons who have gay or happy dispositions, always laughing and joking. I have lots of gay friends and i like them because they are happy to be with.
I am surprised though, that there they dance so the "curse" on them could be appeased and be a normal human being on the next life. That's nice.
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@Professor2010 (20156)
• India
27 May 12
Dina
I will send a picture of God Shiva, here he is having half male body, half female body, it is called 'ardha-nariswar', so these people have faith, they are cursed hence born as gay, by dancing and taking part in the holy procession God Shiva will bless them
I will send a picture of God Shiva, here he is having half male body, half female body, it is called 'ardha-nariswar', so these people have faith, they are cursed hence born as gay, by dancing and taking part in the holy procession God Shiva will bless them@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
27 May 12
Well at least professor, those gays accepts that they are cursed. And they have hopes of becoming regular women someday, with the sacrfices they have for their GOd Shiva.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
25 May 12
I guess that this would be a big problem for men, but for us women we would just laugh you men for falling for them. Honestly, I think that it is kind of funny because I do know lots of men who totally be prettier looking women than me. I have no issue with it.
@Bionicman (3958)
• Czech Republic
25 May 12
I have never met any transexuals nor I have notice them on streets.
If they would have that kind of festival in my city, no amount of cops would save them from getting beaten up.
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@dandan07 (1906)
• China
26 May 12
Here in China, many boys act like girls.
They try to dress them like a lady and do not want to take the responsibility as a man. In their eyes, women means weakness and do not have to do anything for the family. But in the real world, women have a lot of things to do, working, taking care of family members, cooking and preparing food for children.
If a man acts as a girl, he usually do not go to work, while do nothing for the family. In my eyes, that kind of men is living for waste food.
@jazel_juan (15745)
• Philippines
26 May 12
There are a lot of them ANYWHERE professor..
i guess people evolve...
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
25 May 12
hello dada,
We have lots of them here in our country, every part of our country.
They are humans and should be treated equal, although, there are few here who cannot accept those third gender and judge them for being one.
In my opinion, I respect them as long as they know how to handle their situation.
There are many of the third gender who are successful and are respectable, while there are few who are a shame to their kind.
Same thing with the normal ones- men and women- who also are disgrace to the human kind.
No one is perfect and being a gay is not a sin as long as they do not commit blasphemy.
hugs to you and maa

@Professor2010 (20156)
• India
27 May 12
Jane beti
I agree with you, as i have said they are not the kind of sea male you have there, many of them are real male, having family, wife and kids; if you move by train you can see them, making obscene remarks and demanding money, this they use in drinks and gambling, may be they earn as homosexual too
hugs from dada
I agree with you, as i have said they are not the kind of sea male you have there, many of them are real male, having family, wife and kids; if you move by train you can see them, making obscene remarks and demanding money, this they use in drinks and gambling, may be they earn as homosexual too
hugs from dada
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
26 May 12
I wonder why there are so many in one place, maybe they are gathering there. Do they live there?
I had many gay friends, one wasn't close, just a coleague, he used to drag queen at night I find out one day as he told me, and pretend to sing diva's song but without singing, just moving lips you know? I found him completely feminine at day, he had his hair short but he used eye liner in his eyes and done his eyebrows so for me as a girl he wasn't attractive at all but the funny thing it's all the girls were into him, found him attractive. It was clear he was gay, I don't understand how he could be attractive for girls.
He was so nice and smart.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
hi,
i think every country have many or they exist those people you called shemales,because i am one of them that exist here in my country,actually we are good and we know how to be friendly to everyone but some people abuse those kind of attitude we have.










