do you feel insulted?
By shylade
@shylade (3132)
Philippines
May 31, 2012 10:17pm CST
Hi mylotters! I know everyone of us have experienced posting discussion then one or two or many will disagree with you then some will leave a sarcastic remarks. Will you feel insulted?
Sometimes, it is nice that someone shares different idea with you because for sure you will learn from it. I will never feel insulted unless you talk politely and will respect what I said or posted. But then when you mark harsh remarks insulting me or commanding me as if you know me then I will surely be insulted.
Then that's what I believe in, maybe I am wrong because we should take this any personal right? But then again, why would you leave such comment when you know it will insult someone. Isn't it better to skip that discussion if don't have something good to say? Anyway, we are asking for opinion so there is no wrong or right opinion but always be sensible.
You thoughts please.
2 responses
@ONLYHOPE (189)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
hai
Sometimes we response that we do not think that we are commanding or insulting we just know in our self that we have a pure pursuit but not knowing we are hurting the owner of the topic..but maybe the others have an intentional feeling, by some any reasons..but for me if I will received something like that, I should be calm and because as i joined MYLOT i prefer for that, and I know that the owner of MYLOT will study it and they will be the one to judge it..
Have a nice day
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
I agree with you. We should be sensible in giving response because first we don't know the person much (who started the discussion). So we don't know up to what extent she/he will understand what we are saying. Maybe we should not be as sensitive as in person because the fact that we let our feeling or thought be read by others, we should be ready with the consequences and reactions from others. But nevertheless, we should be sensible with giving response.
@wildflow3rz28 (180)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
Well in my opinion I could accept a sarcastic remark if the person dishes out a very strong point, maybe it's an eye opener sometimes for people who only believe what they want to believe. But basically, pointing out something could be done in a polite or civil way.
