I am ruined
By Joy
@PurnaSharma (2562)
Guwahati, India
June 1, 2012 12:14am CST
Hi !
May god doesn't bring such a moment to anyone's life.My own ruined me though i was aware,even i didn't give up hope upon them and which led me to this condition.
My life was going smoothly and holding a good position in government sector,at that time we were at a joint family and had been living happily.
I was deputed out of my home city,so i used visit my home once or twice in a month.
My elder brother had his own business and still he has.whenever i used to be at home,i helped him by assisting in his work.He often used to say me his income is twenty times bigger than my salary and if he would give more time to it than he could earn double of that.Once he asked me why shouldn't i leave the job and join to his busines,in this way i could stay at my home city and boost my earning too.
That really touched me ,what i intended was happening so.After some months i had resigned to my job and back to home.
I was eagerly waiting when he ask me to join his business and in this way,a day,a month and a year has been passed but no a response i got yet....
I am being unemployed for last two years due to above reason and some days back when i went to an interview,i became unanswerable when the interviewer asked me why i left my previous job and what i was doing during the last two years?
Can anybody tell me what i do now? I am ruined..
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6 responses
@allknowing (153530)
• India
1 Jun 12
This does not seem like a complete story to me. When your brother asked you to join his business and now he is silent about it surely you would have involved others in the family and brought this up in the open. Have you done that?
@PurnaSharma (2562)
• Guwahati, India
1 Jun 12
No i haven't,actually he has involved someone else and thats his wife,who almost drive him in all dicisions.
@allknowing (153530)
• India
1 Jun 12
Then you better do it now. And if your brother denies having offered the partnership and there is no proof that he did it then you need to move on and look for a job and give the reasons why you were unemployed so far. It is not clear why you waited so long to get a reply from your brother. What was his reaction each time you approached him? Talk to him once again and record what he says without his knowledge and this you can hold against him. I wish you good luck.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
Oh, no... please do not think that you are ruined. You haven't done anything to have your life ruined, you took a risk and simply not being employed for the last couple of years does not mean you cannot go back on track and still do something about it. your life can be on its way to a good career and it is good that you are starting to look for jobs too, i am sure when you become honest, you would be appreciated and be given a good employment. As for your brother, i think what you can do was just ask him... about the offer.. but if he does not respond.. we know that his offer before was just some words going to the air with no meaning to help. reality is that even our friends, and family members are capable of only boasting about what they have, give you false promises, and empty offers...
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
1 Jun 12
It is in the best interest of your person as well as your family that you prepare yourself for a stage to make a come back to normal self.The courage to face grim situations boldly is the essence of manly fervor. You should be amassing enough courage and bravery to face the trials and tribulations which are part of human existence. The aim must be not to get dejected and dissipated. Noble thoughts should come to you from all sides.Be optimistic and carry the faith that everything will turn out for the better ultimately.LOL.
@wildflow3rz28 (180)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
I wonder why you haven't asked him if he would still want you to join his business.. is it due to pride? Anyway, he is your brother, you should be the one to tell him that you quit your job because of his offer and now you're going to take it. If he says no this time then you could move on with your life.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
2 Jun 12
hi PirnaSharma, call me slow but I am truly confused..If your
brother led you to think he was going to hire you, I assume
you did not have the discussion with him b/4 your quite your
job and moved back home...I don't understsnd that move, but once
again maybe I am just slow....
But what I do know is that you need to have a conversation with
your brother and find out "Whats UP with the JOB???" has
it been easy these last 2 years without a job...come on, you
need to get on top of things so you can move on....with ur life......






