Would you consider being a surrogate mother yourself?

@jbb316 (1779)
United States
December 5, 2006 1:50am CST
No. I would not. I don't think I could do it. I think I would bond with the child too much and not be able to give it up.
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
5 Dec 06
I actually think I would consider it but not without conditions that would stand in a court of law....the condition being that I be allowed to be a part of that childs life on a regular basis
@marrry (341)
• Romania
20 Dec 06
babi - babi
i just can t do that . i will have remorses all of my life ..i think this is a hard thing to do!!!it is a baby,,a humain beeing not a toy,,,so u can t play with that!!!
• United States
11 Jan 07
I am a surrogate and I also work for an agency that matches up surrogates with couples. I have three of my own. The child that I am bringing into this world is not mine what so ever, I share no DNA, I am not using my egg. I have gotten very close to my couple and they are great! they will be great parents and the feeling of giving them their miracle and dream is the best feeling! I will forever have contact with them and we will be forever friends!! It is a beautiful thing!! And I will do it again in a heart beat!!
@Jshean20 (14347)
• Canada
5 Dec 06
I think that I would consider being a surrogate mother for a family member only, I think that's a really nice thing for someone to do for another person that they care for. Atleast with it being a family member, you know that you'll be apart of the babies life when you're carrying for a family member.
@armywifey (882)
• United States
29 Dec 06
There is no way I could do it. It would be impossible for me to give up a baby that I carried in my womb for 9 months. You get a closeness and connection with the baby while pregnant and it would be something that would be way to hard for me to break.
@xXmeganxX (4417)
29 Dec 06
i would definetley not, although i do fel sorry for the women who can't have children. the reason i wouldn't have a child and give it away is 1- it's been in my womb for 9 months ive had all the pain etc of carrying the baby and 2- i just could not give it away as i wouldn't know how it would be treated. since having my baby she has never ben babysitted not even by a member of my family as i don't know if she would be ok, i get too paranoid and care alot so i just couldn't unfortunatley! id rather have my child in my sight so i know what she's doing and that she's being cared for properly and well fed! anybody else feel like this or is it just me hehe??! :-)
@SK401001 (934)
• United States
29 Dec 06
I don't think I could, having had a child, out of experience I know when you feel the baby growing inside of you and feel it kicking, their is a bond that is created that is so strong that I know I could not hadle giving up my child. Even if I knew for a fact that the potential parents would be the best parents in the world. It would not be possible for me.
@tanujarneja (2829)
• India
5 Dec 06
Even i will not be in favour of this
@wasim989 (2298)
• India
5 Dec 06
I am a man but if I was a women then also I will never do such a job..
@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
5 Dec 06
Yes I agree with you. It would be extremely difficult for me to give up the child. I can't imagine how women can do it. It seems heartbreaking to me.