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myLot reputation of 86/100. onestepahead (213) 6 years ago

I have a hard time struggling with materialism. I get it in my head that I want something that I can not really afford and I just can't let it go. I normally spend most of my time in a warmer climate and this year because of fate I am spending my winter in snowy blizzardy weather. So I need to buy a pair of boots. A pair of boots I will only wear for one season.

What boots do I want? A $150 pair of boots from Baby Phat. They are so great. I really want them. I am obsessed with them. I think about what it will feel like when they arrive at my door. How happy I will be to try them on. How great it will be to wear them out for the first time...

In a practical world I know I should just go to Walmart and pick up a $30 pair of boots that will get me through the winter. Somehow that thought depresses me just a little more than it should.

I wish I didn't feel this way but I do. Having something material should not make me feel so happy and not having it shouldn't make me feel depressed.

 

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tags:  materialism, baby phat, boots, money, winter
 
1. myLot reputation of 91/100. srhelmer (5598)   6 years ago

I'm not a very material person. As long as I'm able to have a roof over my head, the bills paid and food on the table, I'm very content.


myLot reputation of 86/100. onestepahead (213)  6 years ago

I guess you have a point...we must make sure the necessities of life are taken care of. Boots will not be that great if I am living on the street and starving, would they...but my feet would be toasty!


myLot reputation of 70/100. blueman (6984)  6 years ago

me too i do not think i am that materialistic.

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. pcbulawanv (689)   6 years ago

I think its normal for you to be happy with material things. Its just perfectly normal for an human being to be happy to have some things to own. We are human beings therefore we are living in a material world. Because of this reason, humans like us would also want to have a possession of material things. So there is nothing wrong with you. Enjoy your life and be happy of what you have and what you can get. Good luck and have a nic day ahead.


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myLot reputation of 86/100. onestepahead (213)  6 years ago

You are a bad influence! Just joking. When I am with my friends they say just buy them! When I am with my mom she thinks I am absurd! I will think about it. Think I can make the money on Mylot?! If I don't buy the boots I will probablly end up just fritter it away. It is not like I am going to put it in an investment fund or anything...

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3. KyleCamelot (49)   6 years ago

Speaking from a Buddhist point of view, the desire itself is what depresses you, and what you must do is simply meditate the desire out of your life. Practically speaking, I've found a good way to get rid of materialistic desire is to try to realize that the things I desire won't actually make me happy. Then, I want them, but I don't desire them, and that actually makes a huge difference to both my mood, and my ability to resist actually getting unnecessary things.


myLot reputation of 86/100. onestepahead (213)  6 years ago

So do I "desire" the attention and admiration for my sense of style and the boots are merely a vehicle for this attention. So perhaps I should think of a more positive (and less expensive) way of being attractive or at least getting attention.

Too hard.




I just want the boots!

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4. myLot reputation of 21/100. gwaring (1404)   6 years ago

YOu only go around once and you cant take it with you so you might as well spend it. Materialism is not necessarily a dirty word.


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5. JDillio12 (46)   6 years ago

I'm kind of the same way, but when it comes to that I end up trying to make a few extra bucks elsewhere to pay for stuff. I mean I've learned the hard way to get pulled into paying for something and then coming up short when I owe someone some money. Now I just think about something else whenever I see something thats way out of my range, and wait for the price to drop or save up for it. Also, I've been looking for ways to make money on-line, and besides myLot I've found one pretty interesting program and it looks legit. Maybe it'll help you too: http://www.agloco.com/r/BBBG9306

It's called AGLoco, and they pay you a few bucks a month to just surf the web with their bar at the bottom of your browser. No spam, no spyware, just the ads. Referrals help you up your earnings too, but we'll see how that goes.

Making a few extra bucks on-line with sites like myLot can help you solve this problem, just try as hard as you can to learn to be patient. Don't by the cheaper stuff just because you can't wait. You'll love yourself for it later!


myLot reputation of 86/100. onestepahead (213)  6 years ago

Hi!

I am totally hearing your on this one. I always thinking of ways to make money on the net. When I do I treat that money as bonus money. I spend it on something I don't necessarily need but just want. I signed up for Agloco a long time ago, in fact I belong to a downline builder for them.

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When I really want money. I promote Tel3. http://www.tel3save.com It is free to join as an affiliate and you can easily make $60 a month every month selling long distance for cell phones. I think maybe I will focus some promotions that way. Thanks for getting me thinking about this.

It is a very good stategy. If I want something that bad, I have to earn it. That way I will appreciate it all the more.

: )

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6. myLot reputation of 88/100. tanujbhargava (262)   6 years ago

yeah ..
u have a point in that !~
but i aint a materialistic person ..
u shouldn't be .. !! thatz what will make u happy !

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7. duggufav2000 (40)   6 years ago

i wont say yhat i dont like material things,i do like.but yes im not obsessed.because i belive there is a proper time for everything.i really love shopping but if i dont have money i can wait and try to earn money to fulfill my desire.i will never adopt any wrong way to fulfill my desires but its also true that i want to make money to fulfil my and my family desires.and im waiting for that time.is there anything wrong im doing?

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8. GlamtasticNature (44)   6 years ago

im not afraid to admit that i am semi materialistic.
i love nice things; & if that means spending money then
i'll do it. i dont do it that often though but when i do
i research everything! & then buy it, unless its like im in the mall & i fall inlove with something lol then i'll think about it for a second & get i might give in to it.

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9. myLot reputation of 81/100. anne_143god (3644)   6 years ago

Maybe you should always convinced your self that it is not actually what you need and try to focus on some other things like playing, surfing the net so your mind wont think those things you want to buy.


tanzen (1)  6 years ago

Dude i guess in my opinion its ok to be materailistic....coz when a loved one is sick u cant pay the hospital bills with the love that u have in ur heart or the good deeds that u've done... u need money bro....and even if after spending the money god forbid the loved ones cannot be saved atleast u have the peace of mind that u tried everything possible and did not think twice becoz of lack of money.....
it completely okkkk to be materialistic.....

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10. myLot reputation of 72/100. mcbota (2065)   6 years ago

you can look at this problem from many points of view.The first:is the $130 pair boot makes something more special like $30 boots?both are boots and have the same quality :to keep u not be frozen.The other point of view:if somebody will look to your boots will notice that u have a cheaper pair of boots and knowing that u can afford an expensive one ,will consider u a man who doent like to spend money.So depends on your thinking about what people may say about u.U reallu need it and feel good with $130 boots and afford too?Go and take it!If u cannot afford ,dont let your desires to make u poor !

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