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myLot reputation of 56/100. mermaidgirl06 (110)2 years ago

I know that we went all thru the stages of breaking apart on a relationship.Now i have this friend of mine who just recently broke up with his bf.But still they constantly met online...tho most of the time they dont message with each other since their breakup, but they dont delete or ignore each other either... I was once been told that its better not to communicate with the person at all to really forget the whole mess and start a new rather than be in contact with the person so one could move on...do u think that break-up would work if still in contact with the person?

 
 
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tags:  relationship, breakup, love, boyfriend, relationships
 
1. myLot reputation of 94/100. the_dutchess (811)   2 years ago

i think it's not about the communication of the two if the break up will work or not, it think it is in the amount of love they have for each other... if one doesn't love him/her anymore, then the break up might work but if one loves him/her sufficient enough, eventually they may end up being together again.

a matter of communication is also one way of starting a friendship after the break up and i believe lovers can be good friends after they were separated


myLot reputation of 56/100. mermaidgirl06 (110)  2 years ago

what if being friends it wud just complicate things? they wud be reminded of the hurt they feel for each other?


myLot reputation of 74/100. fffdile (314)  2 years ago

I agree at all, the first thing to see is if these 2 persons love each other anymore, if yes, they can also delete their online contact, but they won't really break up.

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2. myLot reputation of 26/100. rakeshdas (410)   2 years ago

I want to say in this matter that LOVE IS FRIENDSHIP ... not only friendship, a lover must be the best friend ... as they are not best friend of each other ... the relation broke ...

But the friendship with X-BF/X-GF is very complicated ..... I prefer to stay away from the X-GF of mine

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. alienstar (1306)   2 years ago

Are they really broke their friendship....i don't think so..
It can blossom again as you siad they keep communicating withh each other.It shoes the real bonding between the two people.They might be caring for each other still, but not ready to reveal to each other that easily.So, it might time again to start all over again.....or else, if they want to be seperate, better to stop everything at once since they were lovers first remember....


Krysha (35)  2 years ago

I'd agree that maybe they just need some time apart and keeping that communcating going is helping in some way to keep a line open. Your friend or the x will have to eventually decide if they can keep this going. I'd say let it be and let them make the decision.

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. chiquita1977 (1638)   2 years ago

I believe if you truly want to end it with someone you really shouldnt communicate at first because it will make it harder but eventualy if you want to stay friends then later you could communicate after you have gotten over it.I have done that before with one of my ex.and we are still just only friends.


myLot reputation of 56/100. mermaidgirl06 (110)  2 years ago

thank u. u have given me a splendid idea

 
5. myLot reputation of 84/100. raghwagh (1284)   2 years ago

Here you will have to first see if the relation is just of friend ship or beyond that.If only friendship is concerned then breakup or patch up should not create any problem.When you say there is a breakup means that you are not so much involved so this should not create any problem.Also meeting after so said break up also should not create problem.This is my personnel openion.


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6. myLot reputation of 67/100. shaf001 (135)   2 years ago

Its difficult to forget the things if you are in contact with him and it would be difficult to move on with the new relationship..

 
7. cloudsim (47)   2 years ago

Yes. You break your relations not contacts.

 
8. myLot reputation of 70/100. sann007m2 (455)   2 years ago

hei friend.Dont be upset and dont be so agressive.At first you have to take it very cooly and think about your fault.Everyone think at first other's fault but u have think think yours

 
9. rima28star (36)   2 years ago

she should stop being in contact with or else she will not be able to forget him .


myLot reputation of 56/100. mermaidgirl06 (110)  2 years ago

move on and forget... ok thnx!

 
10. harshiii (89)   2 years ago

what i think is being in contact is not bad but u should nt exceed your limits..jus take him as an acquaintance..but dont meet him often.just maintain a decent level of relation.this would be possible if u dont have grudges both the ways..


myLot reputation of 56/100. mermaidgirl06 (110)  2 years ago

thnx! i appreciate your comment.

 
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