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myLot reputation of 94/100. yarntales (430) 6 years ago

I hate arguments that start because one person used a word another person took exception to.
Example 1: One day I talked about my husband's dr appointment and used the word injection. He wasn't getting an injection that time and kept on saying the same thing over and over. I knew he wasn't getting an injection to start with (sometimes he does) and boy did I regret that word coming out of my mouth. Finally he said you just won't let that go will you? He was the one who kept on me about it, I had let it go.

#2 wasn't an argument, but was an odd situation.
I went to the p.o. to pick up a package because the USPS website said that it was at the p.o. I used the word delivered and the two clerks took exception to it that I said it said delivered. I tried to be polite and state that what I meant was the USPS website said it was at the post office, which it was.

Am i the only one who has these problems?

 

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tags:  semantics, annoyances, apologising, comments, communication
 
1. myLot reputation of 94/100. volschenkh (785)   6 years ago

I think people are sometimes too sensitive about the words you choose to explain something, Ive also experienced what you mention, I accidentally use a incorrect word or term a few times at work and people would take offense. On the other habd once that had happened I am definately more aware of my choice of words ...


myLot reputation of 94/100. yarntales (430)  6 years ago

Yes, I agree, I try to be more careful to choose the correct word, as opposed to any word that would fit in the sentence.

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2. myLot reputation of 72/100. Willowlady (8976)   6 years ago

Even when we are coming from a good place we are constantly dealing with others perception. The most innocent thing can be dastardly to someone else. You have to chalk it up to one of those days. Also with the postal service, although mine has been wonderful with all the books and movies I mail, have you ever heard about someone going postal..There is a reason for that. Count yourself as fortunate since you noted this and are therefore more aware and on the upward path!


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myLot reputation of 94/100. yarntales (430)  6 years ago

Thanks for your comments. I'm trying to be more careful of my words. It sure isn't always easy, is it?

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3. myLot reputation of 84/100. micheller (1051)   6 years ago

yes i also have problems with this. and i hate it when people look at you stupidly for it. it just makes me feel like telling them, "i'm sure you have used the wrong words at one time, everyone makes mistakes you jerk."


myLot reputation of 94/100. yarntales (430)  6 years ago

Yes, everyone does make mistakes. But good luck getting some people to acknowledge it. I do think sometimes people make a huge deal out of something then realize... uh maybe I shouldn't have.

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4. myLot reputation of 72/100. MJ_junkie86 (424)   6 years ago

dont worry about it.
some people are just annoyng!

maybe they were havin a bad day and u gave them the perfect excuse to let out some of their frustruactions by being funny with u.

so really you are a hero, thats the only way you should think of it! lol

all hail hero yarntales!

MJ

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5. myLot reputation of 4/100. ANKUSHGOEL (106)   6 years ago

I LOVE ARGUMENTS

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6. myLot reputation of 79/100. JustSimplyLissa (459)   6 years ago

no your not. I've had the same issues before. It's an unfortunate situation to find one's self in.

I just try my best to get through it and move on.

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. ozangel82 (474)   6 years ago

i know exactly what you mean, some people are just have the stick too far up their butt and cant see that sometimes when you are frustrated words just dont come out properly!

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8. myLot reputation of 87/100. Vacant (2302)   6 years ago

Hmm.. well those examples ARE kinf of over the top. I mean, especially the post office. It was delivered, it was delivered there, they had taken delivery of it.. so what was their problem? i think they were just being smart alecks.

I don't often run into a problem like that from my end.. but my husband! Oh my! The thing is he's so busy cursing and swearing he can't be bothered to use proper words or learn how to implement them..

Lets get some of them apples.
Unthaw some meat
oh and.. shudder...
Sammich! want a sammich? What would you like on your SAMMICH! Arrgghh!

I mever correct him though because then it will just turn into..
some of them F'in apples
unthaw some f'in meat
and a
F'in sammich!


nanna_m (42)  6 years ago

This reminds me of my teenage step-daughter. She often uses words incorrectly, but to hear them come out of her mouth in such a way is so funny at times. For instance; during a discussion of burial vs. cremation, she once stated that even if she's horribly "mutated" she still would not want to be cremated. She makes very good grades in school (3.75 avg), but some of the things she says is too funny to correct. I could probably write a book and get rich, but she's begged me not to. You just gotta love her.

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. Weasel_Sponge (905)   6 years ago

I have this problem a lot-I realize that many commonly used words are used incorrectly or with a different intent than the way I use them, and often people misinterpret what I say. I have to choose my words carefully a lot, it seems!

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10. myLot reputation of 19/100. treblem (323)   6 years ago

i have a lot of problems with this semantics. u cannot understand me if i will speak a lot about this.

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