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What is the main reason people choose to become foster parents? email this discussion to a friend?

Soul911 (30)4 years ago

I have been a part of the child welfare system for over a quarter of a century and have heard almost everything. I wonder what the general public believes is the main people choose to foster. what do you think?


 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 43/100. 1alyssa (783)   4 years ago

wow that is a good question i think that a good foster parent does it because maybe they have always wanted kids and couldn't have any and this is what they do to become a parent to make a difference in the life of a child to offer them love and security when they have never had it

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. CORDALE (367)   4 years ago

I wish it was for love,but I know better as far as the majority goes it is the money. I wish I could become one I believe all children deserve to be loved by at least 1 person.


Soul911 (30)  4 years ago

This is true in many cases even though it is still puzzling because they do not get much money.

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. Marleysa (2936)   4 years ago

Well I can of course not answer for other people but I can very well tell you my reasons for considering to foster.

I did not know,until today/now, after reading some remarks here, that foster parents get compensated for caring for these kids.

I am just considering it purely for the reason that after raising my 4 sons and them having flown the nest, so to speak, I find the quite house very disturbing and miss the noise kids always makes. I miss having them to care for, I miss having someone to hug and hold close.I miss to banter with them just for the heck of it. I miss to joke around and do things together. I have a heart bursting with love to give and no child to give it to at home.

Those are just some of the reasons I am considering it.


Soul911 (30)  4 years ago

Good reasons to become a foster parent. Keep in mind however, that becoming a foster parent means entering the crazy world of "the system."


myLot reputation of 80/100. Marleysa (2936)  4 years ago

Yes,so I have noticed with some of the responses I got. It seems that there is quite a lack of real care on the side of the system, as you put it,for these kids, or am I understanding it wrong?


Soul911 (30)  3 years ago

Actually, I meant when a foster child enters your life so does many others including the court system and the child welfare system. Final decisions regarding what is in the best interest of the child usually rests with them.

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. cinnabunch (894)   4 years ago

I have wanted to become a foster parent for years. My life circumstances have not allowed me to do so. I want to because I love children and I feel I could make a positive difference in the life of a child trapped in the system. If I could make a child feel loved for a small time in their life..it can make all the difference.

cindy


Soul911 (30)  3 years ago

So true.

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5. myLot reputation of 82/100. natuser28 (772)   4 years ago

we like to think, its because they can't have a child of thier own. But everyone case is unique.

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