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myLot reputation of 87/100. anonvenu (267)2 years ago

According to you what is the most common reason for the breakup of a marriage?


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maio19 (74) response was accepted on 1/7/2007.
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1. myLot reputation of 86/100. BellasmamaTiff (1708)   2 years ago

The number one cause of divorce is MARRIAGE...LOL.........


myLot reputation of 87/100. anonvenu (267)  2 years ago

Very funny.... But seriously what do you think is the number one reason?


noelpaige (3)  2 years ago

the #1 cause of divorce is when people giving up on trying. Then they started to re-evaluate and see things differently. They are the same person, but because they have given up on trying to make a marriage work, they see the spouses as a different person all togther,they will claim they have the same feelings, but "things" are the one that change. Sounds famliar?


myLot reputation of 86/100. BellasmamaTiff (1708)  2 years ago

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. atulperx (532)   2 years ago

mostly love marriage go for these cases either they don't able to know each other in right manner or main things is man and women suffer from doubts always and after thy starts blaming to each other and divorce take place .


myLot reputation of 87/100. anonvenu (267)  2 years ago

I don't think so. I would say love marriages last longer.

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. alienstar (1309)   2 years ago

Marriage will be successful only when two people are loving each other more and more and trust and understanding should b emaximum between the couplea orelse, every chance of breaking is high and last of all, they should have mutual respect for each other....what do you think of my views here? am i talking sense here?


myLot reputation of 87/100. anonvenu (267)  2 years ago

You are making a lot of sense. Yes unless and until both the partners respect each other, a marriage can’t last long

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. mansha (4143)   2 years ago

I think its breaking down of communication channel between partners. They start walking around the house full of eggshells and smallest of dialouges start the battle of words- words hurt most and you can not take them back ever or erase them from memory. If this situation is let out of hand you are bound to split one fine day.


myLot reputation of 87/100. anonvenu (267)  2 years ago

Thanks, I agree with you. Both partners should forget and be forgiving of each others short commings and should not go in to verbal battels over these things. As they say 'words can hurt more than swords'.

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5. myLot reputation of 43/100. harikumar4 (200)   2 years ago

misunderstanding also a commom reason


myLot reputation of 87/100. anonvenu (267)  2 years ago

Yes, misunderstanding and mistrust can wreck a marriage in no time.

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. mythmoh (3571)   2 years ago

ego clash,lack of understanding,not forgiving other's mistakes,level of expectancy from other is higher and hence if he/she doesn't meet it..leads to frustartion and the wordy fights.

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7. myLot reputation of 86/100. ganeshprabhuk (829)   2 years ago

misunderstanding lack of patience are the main reasons

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8. myLot reputation of 84/100. pramodthakur (2181)   2 years ago

Difference of opinion.

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9. myLot reputation of 71/100. mkirby624 (1414)   2 years ago

Well, you could say cheating, abuse, etc. But really, I think the most common cause for a divorce is the fact that the couple weren't really in love in the first place. They eventually figured it out and got tired of trying to make themselves love someone that they never loved to begin with.


myLot reputation of 87/100. anonvenu (267)  2 years ago

Very interesting point of view. Maybe people are built in such a way that they can never be satisfied completely with anything.

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10. myLot reputation of 78/100. berlinlife (4368)   2 years ago

It is not just according to me, but according to staistics: mot of marital problems are economic and financial problems. They don´t have enough money, or they have too much and don´t want to share it. Usually is the first one. And that can break up a marriage pretty fast!


myLot reputation of 87/100. anonvenu (267)  2 years ago

I see your implecation. Off course it is logical that financial misunderstandings play major part in a breakup.

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