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myLot reputation of 95/100. Sheeniepie (535) 6 years ago

Im i overly protecting my 4 year old son? because i dont usually let him out MOST OF THE TIME, or if ever he wants to play outside our house, i would always make sure that i was just sitting next to him , keeping an eye on him and going after him and putting on a towel on his back when he's sweating too much, and changing his clothes there.... i think i was just the only mom who would always be sitting next to her own son....
i know that interacting with younger kids is also important to a child's development... its just that i couldnt just let go of my son and play with the other kids more often, because... believe me, even kids much much younger than my son speaks so differently, we hear them saying bad words towars the other kids, or even with their own playmates, and they argue even with their own parents... i remember one time my son spoke a bad word, and his dad was so surprised why he said that, and when we talked to him and asked where did he get that word, he told us that he heard it from the dad of one of the kids outside, saying that word to his own son... and he even describes that the dad kicks his own son and the dad was really mad.... and then i knew whom he was pertaining to at that time because we usually see them arguing even with his own wife and children, and i know that our place is quite unsafe already because there's a lot of drug addicts that's been going around our village too..
that's why as much as we wanted to, we just would want him just to stay inside our house and just play around... we've bought him a lot of things to do like buying him coloring books, puzzles, sketchboards, we even allow him to play games in the computer...
i think that it is our responsibility as parents to guide our chilren, and allow them to feel love and secure....
do you really think im overly protecting him?
thanks..

 

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tags:  child development, children, overly protected, parents, sensible decisions
 
1. myLot reputation of 95/100. gabs8513 (23375)   6 years ago

No you are not over protective at all
I would not leave my 4 year old out on their either my Children did not go out on their own till they where 8 and then it was where I could see them from the House and if they wanted to go to a Friends House that was not close by I would take them and pick them up again


myLot reputation of 95/100. Sheeniepie (535)  6 years ago

hi there, thanks for the response...
i guess as a mother we really have to do our very best to give them all the kind of love, care, and understanding that they need, and were just taking it as a full responsibility where ever they are...

thanks a lot for posting in this discussio, happy earnings to you...

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. harcab (983)   6 years ago

If you don't protect the welfare of your child, who will? You are more interested in him than any neighbors or relatives. It is because he is yours. Keep up the efforts. I know it is not easy in the Philippines since there are so many children per family, and relatives and neighbors expect your kid to mingle with the others. Still, you have a responsibility until the child is old enough to make sensible decisions on his own.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Sheeniepie (535)  6 years ago

ok... thanks a lot for your good advice.. i know that he's my responsibility and i know i should protect him until such time that he can stand on his own...

thanks for responding to this discussion....^_^

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