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myLot reputation of 94/100. buenavida (1203)   ranked 1 out of 10 in learnt a lot from other people2 years ago

My father smoked for about 50 years and died of cancer at the age of 69.
The interesting thing, that makes me write about it is what happened just the year before.
He had tried to stop smoking earlier, many years ago but had started again. That time, in the 50s and 60s not so many understood how dangerous smoking is.
And nobody talked about how passive smoking affects the rest of the family.
After having smoked almost all his life, my father had many health problems, asthma was one of them.
One of his friends, who had even worse asthma finally stopped smoking. That helped my father to decide to stop too. He saw it as a sort of channenge and it helped him to make the final decision.
Some time after that he started to feel the taste of food. When he was eating, he was already planning for the next meal, and as he was rather thin, he started to put on a little more weight.
It was great to see how much younger he looked only after some months without the cigarettes.
He told us that he would have stopped smoking years ago if he had known how easy it was.
I often wonder if he had decided to stop smoking much ealier, perhaps he would have lived healthier and much longer.
About a year after stopping smoking the doctors told him he had cancer and he died a short time after that. I am still glad that he had some time of better health and his life quality was great that time.
This shows that even rather old people have a possibility to get a better life quality quitting this dangerous habit.
So what about you?
It is maybe not too late in your case?
You might be adding many years of better health to your life and at the same time the chance to give time to your family members and friends.
So if you stop smoking Now, you may still have a chance.

 
 
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cherbe (2311) response was accepted on 3/28/2007.
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tags:  smoking, quit, health, life quality, cancer
 
1. myLot reputation of 56/100. trshkershaw (176)   ranked 8 out of 10 in learnt a lot from other people   2 years ago

sorry to hear about your dad, but think your discussion is most interesting and you seem to be seeing the positive side. I am once again going to give up the evil cigs as a new years resolution, and hopefully this time will work.


myLot reputation of 94/100. buenavida (1203)   ranked 1 out of 10 in learnt a lot from other people  2 years ago

Great, I hope you get rid of the cigs forever. It helps if you write down your goal for this same date next year and write your diary in "advance" for example: "2007-12-26 I am completely free from smoking". The funny thing is if we write down somthing it starts working in our mind "unconcioursly" and you start acting against your goal one thing at a time.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. cherbe (2311)   ranked 2 out of 10 in learnt a lot from other people   2 years ago

buenavida, I agree with you.
In fact my other half use to smoke when I first met him and has been smoke free for a year now.
No one I knew smoked and no one in my family did as well and he didn't want to see my kids hurt by the second hand smoke either so he decide he was going to try to quit last year and did!
He is so much happier now and can't believe how much it has changed his life.
He can't even stand the smell of it anymore or to watch someone else smoke makes him sick to his stomach.
Quitting smoking can change anyones life at anytime no matter how old or young they are.
Everyday with out a smoke is a few more days lived much healthier.


myLot reputation of 94/100. buenavida (1203)   ranked 1 out of 10 in learnt a lot from other people  2 years ago

I am so happy for you all - especially the kids that can breath fresh air.
When I grew up, nobody understood how dangerous it is to be a passive smoker but now that I am learning how to clean away the toxins from the body, I am greatful that we can recover from damage caused by other people´s smoking.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. easymoney75503 (1235)   ranked 3 out of 10 in learnt a lot from other people   2 years ago

i am so sorry about your dad. you are right though about how he felt better after he quit and he had the time to do that. i currently smoke and i want to quit it is just really hard. i have tried a few times and well i didnt make it. everyone around me smokes even hubby. my kids are always after me to stop. i just havent found a way yet. my life is so stressful right now i am not sure i could handle doing it right now. i just lost my job, my unemployment hasnt started, we are behind on every bill, my oldest daughter has gone boy crazy, my landlord past away and my credit isnt good enough to buy this place, we are having to move and have no money, my truck broke down, and my dog was ran over, and yesterday my hamster past away. sorry i dont mean to go on and on it is just this year has been ruff but i do want to stop. i think that is one thing that makes it hard on alot of people is the added stress of stopping. i hope i get things back on track cause that will be one of my main goals this year. at the rate i am going i may not be able to afford to smoke. lol


myLot reputation of 94/100. buenavida (1203)   ranked 1 out of 10 in learnt a lot from other people  2 years ago

Oh dear, you could certainly need help. Have you checked the movie:
http://www.thescienceofgettingrich.biz/?

Even if we believe only half of it, the thoughts can really change lots of things.

At least we can pick up some things and use it in our life and see if it works.

I have some beautiful stones, found on a beach that I put on the table to remind me of things to be greatful for.
It helps to feel better.

I also use cold pressed fish oil to feed my brain and that has helped me to handle stress.


myLot reputation of 97/100. easymoney75503 (1235)   ranked 3 out of 10 in learnt a lot from other people  2 years ago

i clicked on the link and put it in favorites so i can check it out here in just a bit. i have alot of stuff going wrong in my life right now but i have alot to be happy for too. i have my husband and kids. i figure as long as i have that nothing is as bad as it seems. we have love and that is one thing that makes me happy.


myLot reputation of 94/100. buenavida (1203)   ranked 1 out of 10 in learnt a lot from other people  2 years ago

Sounds great, we always find something positive in our life and if we concentrate on that, we can influence our surroundings to think positive.
I would like to know what you think after seeing the movie.

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