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kumikosuzuki83 (73) 6 years ago

Why is it that men in western countries seem to find Japanese women attractive but men in Japan seem to find western women attractive?

Here in Tokyo, the idea of beauty is completely western. In department stores, most of the posters and even mannequins have a western face - usually with blonde hair and blue eyes. When we turn on the TV our commercials are filled with western women too. Many Japanese women (not me!) even resort to surgery to make their eyes bigger or rounder. Cosmetic surgery is also popular for increasing bust size and making noses pointier.

However, when I was in the USA, I noticed that many men are interested in asian women. Many models and actresses were asian. Many western men even told me quite directly that they were very attracted to asian women.

It's interesting. I'd like to know why you think this difference occurs?

kumiko
xo

 

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1. myLot reputation of 77/100. Angrykitty (1015)   6 years ago

I think it is because people are enticed by what they see as exotic, something different from what they see everyday.


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

yes, that's a good point. but surely in a multicultural country like the usa, this should not occur?


myLot reputation of 95/100. tictac714 (538)  6 years ago

Well that's true, the US is multicultural...and there IS intercultural dating and things of course. But perhaps, I mean there are areas, parts of cities and what have you, where the population is not AS mixed, and areas where the Asians are dating Asians, and so forth. So even though the US is multicultural....for some "white" men, it may still seem to them more challenging and thus, more interesting, to be with an Asian woman.
I don't know just a thought.


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

Aah, good point. Thank you for a great comment. I used to live in NY which is quite multicultural.
It's definitely a lot different to Japan which is quite a homogenous society. There are not a lot of westerners at al compared to other countries!


myLot reputation of 63/100. rallymercado (126)  6 years ago

my friend said he likes Japanese women because they are horny females...

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. knowitallgurl (555)   6 years ago

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kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

haha!!! thank you for your comment. being attentive to men is definitely a part of asian culture, but i think it's declining. perhaps a good thing!!

I don't think i really have a secret...what's yours? haha!!

kumiko
xo


myLot reputation of 44/100. yorgaki (264)  6 years ago

kumiko, it seems that asian women are very submissive and careful with the men, and the western women are very arrogant and selfish, like searching their own satisfaction. You are just adorable, because you understand that a couple can be happy only when both partners are happy. Western women are silly because they pretend a man to satisfy them and provide them with everything (they run for the men that have money) but it is even worst : a woman can be satisfied in half of hour or even more, a man can be satisfied in 2 min or less (just joking here) but this shows that women have bigger appetite than men, and western consider that for 2 minutes of pleasure they offer to their man this must offer them 30 minutes of pleasure, which is not fair. They dump the man that doesn't do that, as if the man would be just a sexual toy for them, and often are very insensitive, running from man to man. "Modern" women search satisfaction not love, that's why they are so "unhappy". Basicly it is all about a wrong culture that put the woman in a rigid position of "not being in need of the man" which is plain stupid... Asian woman is true with herself and recognize her need of a man and foe that she is loved and a noble man will try to make her happy for all her life. She is sensitive and that attract the man to love her to protect her and to care about her not to hate her and despise as happens toward the "strong" and "powerful" and artificial western woman.

For a better understanding, just compare let's say even an indian movie - how delicate, how sensitive is there a love story between a man and a woman, and how rude and barbarian seems to be today a western "love" (or often sex) story ...


myLot reputation of 82/100. maddy37 (4288)  6 years ago

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3. myLot reputation of 79/100. misskatonic (2639)   6 years ago

It's all about what;s 'exotic'. A lot of westerners also find Indian and Italian or Greek women to be very appealing. I remember when I first started planning a trip to Japan, a Japanese friend warned me I'd be hit on a lot over there, because I'm blond haired and blue eyed. Or I was, at the time. I'm still planning and I've dyed my hair!

Personally, I do find a lot of Asian women to be very attractive. But I find just as many American women to be attractive. Though I've noticed that a lot of Asian women looking *healthier* than a lot of American women, and that definitely adds to how attractive a woman looks.


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

You have a well balanced opinion, don't you? It's nice to read it!


myLot reputation of 44/100. yorgaki (264)  6 years ago

you are very delicate .. hmmm .. even this answer of you shows that ...


myLot reputation of 43/100. smbilalshah (1149)  6 years ago

well i think western mwn drea of them maye cox they wish to be treated like men in the east hahaha.... in ur dreams! hahahaha!
by the way not every1 is attracted towards asian women but if theres one like the 1 in that pic of urs then ofcourse its not that hard to understand ;)

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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. harris24982 (442)   6 years ago

ive allways liked japanese women

for some reason they all look very cute sweet and inocent when smileing

the culture

voices sound very sweet
skin tone is exotic

thats my reasons anyway may be different for other men



kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

haha....thank you! but surely many western women have sweet voices?


myLot reputation of 90/100. harris24982 (442)  6 years ago

there is meany western women with sweet voices
maybe its just that i hear them all the time so they dont sound as sweet


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

ooh...that sounds like you need a vacation!! please come to tokyo!!

kumiko
xo


myLot reputation of 44/100. yorgaki (264)  6 years ago

kumiko, are you living in Tokyo ? I'd like to visit you there ... xoxo

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5. myLot reputation of 79/100. Spheria (155)   6 years ago

Sometimes people desire something else if they already had enough of something in particular.


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

good point! maybe japanese men like western women because they've had too many japanese women! Japanese women should unite and stop this!! :)

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6. shafiqsnss (24)   6 years ago

i too waz alwayz interested in women frm da eastern countries ....coz they hav a very innnocent charm in their face tht quite makes me get more attracted to dem.....

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7. str1k3_pr0tect (31)   6 years ago

because all people like the exotic, not the normal.


I like japanese women :P


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

Aah, yes. I must admit that I like exotic men! Where are you from?

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8. myLot reputation of 78/100. theredlion_17 (711)   6 years ago

because the nature of human is like they does not like the things they look every day .

they will like the things that has less possibility of getting them.

Here in india its a same situation as there.


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

It's interesting to note that it happens in different countries too. maybe it is a universal thing about us humans?


iocaws (15)  6 years ago

I think that:
Japanese or Asian women in general are beautiful and western search this because we view they as lovely...
I've personal experience with a Japanese girl, she was very pretty and she follow me in any time that i need you... i think that this is a very beautiful situation...
I know that this is only a personal experience, but i would like to write this...
Bye


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

Thank you for your personal experience. It's lovely. I wonder if there are any japanese men who would say the same about a western woman?

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. tictac714 (538)   6 years ago

What you're observing is definitely true. I think it must have to do with the difference, I mean the men are gooing for something that seems "different" or "exotic" to them.


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

Good point. Do you think that it's the same for women?


myLot reputation of 95/100. tictac714 (538)  6 years ago

I would assume that it would be, But for some reason I really hear much more about white guys being obsessed with Asian women than woman being interested in Asian men. I wonder why.

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. Ashida (621)   6 years ago

Perhaps it has to do with being different or rare. In the west japanese women are rare. In Japan, western women are rare. people tend to associate scarcity with value. The rarer a thing the more desireable it becomes.


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

Aaah, just like gold!!! haha!!!

I think that's true, I would like to know what is attractive in a greatly multicultural society. Any ideas?


myLot reputation of 96/100. Ashida (621)  6 years ago

Personality, perhaps?


kumikosuzuki83 (73)  6 years ago

haha!!! of course!!

what a new concept!!


myLot reputation of 96/100. Ashida (621)  6 years ago

although America is a pretty multi-cultural society -- especially New York. What do you think people in a multi-cultural soceity find attractive?


myLot reputation of 44/100. yorgaki (264)  6 years ago

Whatever is genuine.
Please remember this for all of your life : the most richest, or intelligent, or noble, or loving, or awesome people always put a high price on genuineness . Nothing else.
Nothing else. Nooothing else !!


myLot reputation of 96/100. Ashida (621)  6 years ago

I absolutely agree. There's nothing more beautiful than truth. If I could rate a response with ten +'s you'd have gotten them all for this response.


myLot reputation of 53/100. rohitssj4 (1301)  6 years ago

its true friend


douxianchao (12)  6 years ago

Honest is the best policy!

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