How can i mend a broken heart?

Of course it hurts, that's normal and natural. With time it won't be quite as bad as what you are going through right now.

i just had posted in the other discussion any ways..... those lines again for you....... Failure does not mean that you are a failure… It does mean that you have not succeeded yet. Failure does not mean you have accomplished nothing… It does mean you have learned something. Failure does not mean you have been a fool… It does mean you had a lot of faith. Failure does not mean you have been disgraced… It does mean you were willing to try. Failure does not mean you don’t have it… It does mean you have to do something in a different way. Failure does not mean that you are inferior… It does mean you are not perfect. Failure does not mean you have wasted your life… It does mean you have a reason to start afresh. Failure does not mean you should give up… It does mean it will take a little longer. Failure does not mean you will never make it… It does mean it will take a little longer. Failure does not mean GOD has abandoned you… It does mean GOD has a better idea.