Has anyone else my age never been in love?

This is off the subject, but isn't it funny how they highlight certain words in the text to make a link? It makes it read as if I had said, I had a "FRIEND" who said... And there was a link for women but not men in your response. Back to the subject. If you stop to think whether someone is right for you then, no, you will never fall in love. The men who I thought were right for me were either uninterested, or uninteresting.

96 Vidalias said: "If you stop to think whether someone is right for you then, no, you will never fall in love. The men who I thought were right for me were either uninterested, or uninteresting." If you can't tell whose right for you then you haven't known them long enough or well enough. And by "knowing them" I also mean getting that spark of attraction. If they're not right for me, I'm not attracted to them. And if I'm not attracted to them, nothing is going to happen, whether I want it to or not.

It certainly is possible, because I'm living proof. You have to be at least dating someone to be at the stage of knowing or not knowing that you're in love. I've only "dated" four men in my life and of those three: I went out with two of them one time each. I'll call it a "date" but I didn't consider it a date because they were interested in me, I wasn't interested in them; One of them I went out three times with. He was nice but there were no sparks, partly because he is much younger than I am and we didn't have much in common. Age does make a difference for me because I don't have much in common with people 15 years younger than I am. The other guy I dated was really the only guy I've*really* dated. He was my high school boyfriend. We dated for two years. I was attracted to him, but I wasn't in love. And that's the total of my love life, if you can call it a "love life," which I really don't think you can. ;)