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|  It has been eight months since my husband’s death and I am finally coming out of the fog. I look back and wonder how did I do it. I look back and wonder why did I have to. I learned things and wondered why. It was sudden and it was blurred. The rush of people, paramedic, police, CSI and coroner. The calls to family how do you say he died at 49. My son is brave, too brave? I am stronger now. Probably stronger than I have been in 21 years. I am now looking for a job, a difficult task and yet I feel confident. Confidence amazing! I can’t think about the future but am learning to live in the now. This year is almost over and I am so glad. What will next year bring? Can I look forward? Not yet. I need to live now until I find my normal. Till I find me.
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1.  Geminigirl (1583)
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6 years ago
| | Wow, you are so brave. I have experienced the death of someone very close to me and I know how hard it is. I think it truly takes a year, and more, to even get yourself together. It really sounds like you are on the right track. getting a job will help you focus on something else and meet new friends. I wish you all the best. | | | | | | |
| sashasmom (47)
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6 years ago
| | thank you so much. today I am not feeling brave. I am feeling very lonely. I'm glad I stumbled across mylot and YOU have made me smile. | | | |
| nangel78 (1407)
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6 years ago
| |  I completely understand. I lost my mom around three years ago. I worked to help handle the situation.
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2.  anu_jak (2025)
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6 years ago
| |  i think what was happen not good..but tat is a good thing that u ve the ability to accpt the truth n now u r goin to do ur responsibility..world need people like u..i m not sayin u r goin alot..just be honest with ur thoughts n see in ur self..every thing u ll find god here then..m only 24 years very younger to say u all these things..but good luck
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| sashasmom (47)
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6 years ago
| | Thank you. Your tree is truly a work of art. | | | |
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| 4. Stephanie5 (1756)
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6 years ago
| |  Oh, I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my father this year and it's been very, very hard. He was only 51. He died from drinking. I feel like I have a lot of guilt, guilt for not being there when he died, for not telling him things that I wanted to, for not being a better daughter, etc. And we have still not had a funeral/memorial for him which makes it even harder because I feel like I've not gotten to say goodbye.
It sounds like you are just now starting to try and move forward. It's very hard, isn't it? All I can say is be thankful for what you do have and it's ok to lean on someone. Your life will never be the same and I guess it takes realizing that to move on. Your life is going to be so different and probably harder for a while. But, you have to be strong! You have to look forward or you are going to miss so much with family and friends and regret that later on. This is the first day of the rest of your life. Only you can decide your future. Take it one day at a time.
Again, I'm so sorry for your loss. I will pray for you! Please feel free to add me as a friend and message me any time you need to talk. I'll be here for you!
Your new friend,
Stephanie
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| sashasmom (47)
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6 years ago
| | Thank you for your prays and advise and I am sorry for your loss. I hope you can find peace, there is only so much we can do for others and then they have to do it themselfs. Drinking is a choice. | | | |
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| 5. jacksparrowthehunk (12)
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6 years ago
| | Wow, you are so brave. I have experienced the death of someone very close to me and I know how hard it is. I think it truly takes a year, and more, to even get yourself together. It really sounds like you are on the right track. getting a job will help you focus on something else and meet new friends. I wish you all the best. | | | | | | |
 mayakup (661)
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6 years ago
| |  YOU COPIED Geminigirl's RESPONSE SHAME ON YOU FOR CHEATING!!!
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| teufelskind (568)
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6 years ago
| |  you have been reported this is what we are talking about you will be turned in for things like this it is not hard to make up your own veiws on things come on
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6.  rattle_snake212 (237)
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6 years ago
| |  iam sure your a brave girl and im sure you are out of the trauma..
may u live your new life hapilly
and u get a reaaly good job
may the departed soul rest in peace!!
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| 7. HaileY326 (81)
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6 years ago
| |  superbrave i feel sorry for what happen but then its over now you need to move on and face youre life i wish that youll be able to find a new job as soon as possible gud luck
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| sashasmom (47)
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6 years ago
| | Thank you for your kind comments. | | | |
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8.  sweetgirl_k1 (3425)
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6 years ago
| |  Oh I am so sorry about your husband's death. My grandfather died back in September and my grandmother is still having a hard time. She said she will go by and look at his picture and just get so mad because he left her here by herself. She said she just had to finally realize that it wasn't his fault, it was just time for him to go. I hope everything works out for you and I know it's hard to move on.
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| sashasmom (47)
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6 years ago
| | Thank you. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope your grandmother finds peace. How long were they married? | | | |
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| 9. sandie61 (1272)
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6 years ago
| |  I am so sorry for your loss. you are so brave. I lost my Mom 3 years ago and it still bothers me today. I can only imagine the heartache you must feel. I don`t even know if I could make it if my husband was gone. thats sad to say but true. good luck with your job search. you sound like you are doing really well now. you can add me to your friends list. if you need a friend I am here for you. hugs to you.
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| sashasmom (47)
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6 years ago
| | Thank you so very much. You could make it because you have to. One foot in front of the other. OMG I should listen to what I said. Thank you. I am honored to be your friend. | | | |
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| 10. bunnylady01 (460)
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6 years ago
| |  I too lost my husband at 49. I was left with 3 kids to raise and I did not work. It was devastating. He was killed by a drunk driver and we had to go through legal stuff for years which kept his death on my mind constantly.
Please know, it does get a bit easier. My kids were a strength to me knowing I had to care for them. I also had my church behind me and that was so much help.
I met my current husband when I was newly widowed and he was a God send. He not only helped me but my kids too and they adore him. We have been married for 5 years now and my 1st husband will always be a part of me as we were married for 21 years. But, each day gets easier and the memories and my kids help.
Stay strong, you can do it. Ask for help when you need it. Life does go on. I now own my own business and that helps to keep me on the right path.
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| sashasmom (47)
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6 years ago
| | OH WOW! My son is about the only thing that really helps. We were married almost 21 years (two months short) I am having a hard time with god lately. He used to be a big part of my life. I feel like there is no god things just happen. I hope I can do as well as you. Thank you. | | | |
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